I had an epiphany that I am 40 years old, my life is half over and the people that I have shared it with have moved on to something more permanent while I was busy sowing my oats. Now my oats are quite sown, and there are a few of those women who I wish I had not let slip by, but I was going through some kind of Peter Pan complex thinking I would be young forever. That they would still be available later. Now I see them on Facebook, with their family and spouse and just think what an idiot I am. I even tried to contact a couple of them and they said, "you made your bed, now lay in it". I guess it's ridiculous to think well, I'm ready now so how about it? All I can do is say you are right, I'm sorry I hurt you, and it's time for me to move on and find someone new. So....
Seeking a woman is interested in all things, and loves to learn. Someone comfortable in an elegant dress as well as jeans. Who has goals in life, not desperate for a date but hasn’t found someone who they feel is truly a partner and an equal. We are all quirky in someway, but not pathological. Just down to earth.
Left leaning politically but not someone who chains themselves to trees. Objective enough to see the other side of the argument. Equally objective about themselves, strengths as well as weaknesses, who knows them and is trying to improve. I got into salsa and swing dance for a while. Not into it right now, I think it's a nice thing to do as a couple. I"m not that good but not that bad either, would like to find someone to take lessons with.
