I have a good sense of humor and work in pathology so it can be a bit twisted at times. Sarcasm is my forte. I'm not horribly interested in going to bars to pick up guys or try to "act single," but am ok with going out once in a while and miss going to shows.
I love to travel and drive (love locking myself in the car and listening to music) and see new places. I often find myself traipsing through a field or hopping a fence to get a photo. I listen to death/black metal, play video games, drink beer, cook, crochet, sew, and draw. I guess I'm an odd mixture, but at least I don't have a serial number.
I can't say what I'm looking for--I get along well with almost anyone and am actually very outspoken, friendly, and polite. I hate cocky, self-centered people, and I can't handle anyone who doesn't have a sense of humor or doesn't like animals or music. Something's wrong with you if you're like that, not that I'm being judgemental or anything. I'll get along with your friends, provided they don't suck (see above).
I have to say, I am pretty freaked out by photos of guys flexing at the gym, or standing in the bathroom with their shirt off and lips pursed. I don't care how much money you make--I make my own. What I care about is that you work, and hopefully enjoy it. I don't scale mountains on my weekends, have a skydiving punch card, snowboard through avalanches, or do any exxxxtreme sports. I am active, and I like playing around. I'll try something new as long as you don't mind if I suck at it. And as long as I'm not bleeding profusely, I can even laugh at myself when I get pelted with an exxxxtreme soccer ball.
I have a 6 year old daughter who lives with me half the time, and who is very important to me. I understand being freaked out by kids--I always was (until I had one). She doesn't need a caretaker, provider, or dad. I'm not a fan of drama or awkwardness, so don't worry that I'm going to introduce you to her or make you babysit.
I'm just looking for people to have fun with right now. Dating is just not fun until you're comfortable with someone. I'd rather call it something else so everyone can be comfortable and not worry about expectations. I'm not really looking for anything other than that right now, anyway