When you look you never find what it is your looking for! I have a new plan, which is to live life and enjoy! Whatever happens will happen. I like to travel excessively and quiet time reading and listing to jazz, ledisi, and jill scott. You only get 1 life so if someone or something is stopping you from enjoying it, let them or it go and get on with the fun. I have 2 children not kids. My daughter just graduated from high school and my son graduates next year. I love them dearly, but I will kick my travels into high gear now that they are young adults. If you want to join the party, holla at me! WinK ;)