I am really trying to be honest about what I actually want, ideally, as simply a dude who likes girls, I am looking for a girl who has something about her that I cannot resist, this thing that makes me happy I get to go home her that night. Girls on the artsier side seem to more compatible. I want to state my place in life, I am not a lazy man, I have worked hard all my life, I was in the Navy, I've worked in power plants all over the place, now I have an office job in Boston with good hours and pay, but I want to start traveling more. I am from the working class in Taunton. I love my family, there are some untraditional elements of my family. I have a 2 family house in good area for an investment which I am continually improving. , I want to move towards a life where I can take months off at a time and do interesting things. I am ideally looking for someone who interested in exploring with me. I am at the moment I am very unsure if I ever want children, if you definitely definitely want children as some women in my age group tend to, I may not be for you.
For my goals, I have always worked hard and am I building security. I would like to get to a point where I can do different interesting things, like travel or work on a farm, whatever and not be completely bound to a specific company. I am not into keeping up with the joneses, I want to have liesure at the expense of luxury to some extent. As far as kids, I can go either way, I could imagine a situation where it would nice and beautiful, however I can easily go the way of taking kids out of the equation in lieu of following whims of my own. I'm into expansion of the mind in moderation and like going to festivals and smoking cigarettes in a controlled fashion if it suits me at the time. I'm not all about about partying, I have enjoyed it, but something in me feels it needs to be said. I really enjoy connecting with nature and the self. I am not super new agey, I'm sort of silly for the most part, but pleasant and respectful for the most part. I'm interested in many facets of our experience as a being.
I enjoy meaningful conversation and having fun. I like to explore different avenues of thought.
Comedy is one of my deepest loves. I can have fun in a grocery store.
One day I'd like to forgo the corporate world and forge out on my own.
I gain much pleasure from food and drink, being outdoors, music, art, and science.
An ideal sunday for me would be to do a nice nature walk somewhere in New England and then have a bite to eat.
These days funk are jazz is my favorite, but I am open to most music, I love seeing live music and I like dancing
My heroes include, but are not limited to Adam Yauch, Ray Bourque, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Alan Watts, Sir Earnest Shackleton...
Favorite Animals: Otters, Anteaters, Dolphins, Whales, Platypuses...
I sort of live on the edge of seriousness and silliness if that makes sense. I like reveling in the absurdities of life and love a good laugh about as much as anything.
For work, I am a "professional", working in sort of a engineering/computing kinda job that is helping me towards my personal goals. It's a decent gig.
I like travelling and experiencing new things. I really like going abroad.
These days I'm not too much into pop culture, I do like a good movie, nature documentary, and some sports, especially hockey.
I am fond of art shows, museums, walking around, festivals, pretty much doing whatever that's interesting.
For exercise I like to do yoga and playing ultimate frisbee in the good weather.
I cook a lot. I like experimenting, my palette can handlie quite a bit.
My favorite zen saying:
There was once a great zen master and one of his disciples looking at a beautiful vista.
The disciple said "the mountains, the sky, they are so beautiful. Are we not in union with them?"