I would like to be on the same page with whomever it is that finds me. I don't like the question, "So, what are you looking for in a mate?" I like to see his actions and judge for myself if he is a person that I could be with. I want to be courted, I want to be treated like a lady. On the same token, I want to cross paths with the man that appreciates a good woman taking care of him and being by his side. No, I'm no 'sugar mama'! lol But there are so many ways to 'take care' of that special someone without being his second mother!