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29 year old woman
Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking:
men 26-50
Within:
80 Miles of Los Angeles, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I Love to Love. I'm at my best when I can share a smile, hold a hand, and eat dinner with someone.

I'm looking for an available single man who Loves to Love as well.


The Invitation.

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon.

I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithlessand therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it’s not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”

It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.

I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

- Oriah Mountain Dreamer

Please wink if interested. Good luck in your search!

Interests:
Camping, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Taurus
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I love to have people over and cook and eat, go out in nature, dance, spend time alone cleaning up, pray and meditate, read books, write and especially have a good time doing anything with some good company

Favorite hot spots:

Temescal Gateway Park, Cafe Vida, Zanzibar (the club and the island), clean indoor venues, lush outdoor venues... I'm excited to go and be just about anywhere

Favorite things:

massages, baths, candles, traveling, staying in one place for some time, good healthy food, dancing, authentic conversations, shared smiles, small acts of kindness, holding each other

Last read:

The Untethered Soul

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Never
Never, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I am a writer and I also work in community development.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Black / African descent, Other

Born and raised in the US, but parents from West Africa.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other

I grew up in a monotheistic religion and my understanding of spirituality is constantly evolving.

Languages:
English, French
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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