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It's been a long time comin'..but I know, change gon' come, oh yes it will Sam Cooke

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65 year old man
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
women 50-65
Within:
50 Miles of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

"..tread softly lest you tread on my dreams.." W.B. Yeats

We all come here with our dreams, do we not?

Hello. I am not sure I'd still be on this site but for the fact that I signed up for an long subscription when I began here. It seemed like the best deal at the time. Unconsciously, I may also have known that connecting with someone might require time.

My "Real Age" age is 51. I exercise vigorously. Honestly, I'm not laid back. I take everything with which I engage very seriously, bordering on passionately. Not exactly conducive to walking on the beach, unless it's the stormy, windswept rocky terrain of Scotland or Ireland. I wear a lot of wool. I'm sentimental, generous, and a soft touch.

Here is another quote which speaks to me, from Flaubert: "Be regular and orderly in your life, so that you may be violent and original in your work."

My days usually begin around 5AM. I work out with a trainer twice a week. Other days I attend to the stuff of life. I'm still working on myself from all angles.

The simple version of my status is that I am living separately from a woman for whom I still care and whom I do not plan to divorce. I have transferred responsibility for her direct care to others, but I will continue to be responsible for her and her care. I am slowly coming back into the land of the living. My work has kept me going for a long time, and now I would like more.

Finally, I can't do this without being reminded that this process has been going on for a long time, from the "catalog women" in the settling of the West to the Asian brides who came to the West Coast to discover that the men they thought they were joining bore no resemblance to the pictures which had been sent in the arrangement process. And there was no turning back.

As frightening as this has been, there is no turning back for me, either. But I must continue to make sure that my responsibilities are being discharged faithfully.

Let there be peace on earth. This night your days are reduced by one. Do not squander your life.

Pics are current.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I love Brittanys - lost 3 in the past year, rescued a Yellow Black Mouth Cur since.
I am allergic to cats.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
Saint Louis University, St. Louis, MO
For fun:

Two weeks ago, I fired up the coal stove in my kitchen, (makes it cozy), picked up half a ton of coal from the coal yard, and unloaded it myself. Today I enjoyed becoming reacquainted with some books I hadn't picked up for quite awhile.

Favorite hot spots:

Italian family trattorias with great sausage and peppers, a good book, the woods, reading passages out loud to friends and loved ones. Any place or location which inspires awe.

Favorite things:

I am an inveterate lover of jazz, blues, gospel, soul, Afro-pop, Celtic, and live symphonic performance. See John Coltrane, "A Love Supreme," or Horace Silver, "Song For My Father." I must include Mongo Santamaria and Tito Puente.

Last read:

"Waiting" by Robert Penn Warren; "Practical Psychoanalysis" by Owen Renik; "Stoic Warriors, by Nancy Sherman; "Narrative Reflections: How Witnessing Their Stories Changes Our Lives" (to which I am a contributor);

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Bald
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness
No preference

Psychotherapy: help people challenge what they thought was unchallengeable in their lives- and to leave no stone unturned in that endeavor. See the Hebrew word "ruach," meaning breath, life, spirit. As long as we have breath, we have life.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Currently Separated
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
No
No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Celtic- Yeats, Joyce, Dylan Thomas, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Seamus Heaney
Alsatian/French: sensibility, pragmatism, humanity of Victor Hugo, passion
African American (adopted): see Johnny Otis

Faith:
Other
Agnostic, Atheist, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English, French, Italian, Portuguese, Russian, Spanish
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

PhD, University of Pennsylvania with interests in ethnography, discourse analysis and philosophy of science as applied to methods of psychotherapy.

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