How do you write about yourself and NOT sound egotistical? The last profile I wrote on here was apparently too much information for some people....almost eliminated the reason to even meet me in person....and I'm even more charming in person if you can believe it. So I'll try and keep this short and sweet, yet still hit the finer points of who I am and who I am looking for.
I moved to Dallas in August of 2011 from L.A. and started my own business in January 2012, all in the hopes that I would get away from the superficialness of Los Angeles and meet someone that wanted to settle down. I have a dated a few girls since I have been here, but none of them have been what I was looking for, although I can say that I learned a lot from each relationship....one of them taught me how to file a restraining order....just kidding. I currently work....A LOT, I keep a regular job for benefits until my own business can fully support me, and I'm not worried about that because business is good so far.....who knew teaching Grandmas how to pole dance could be so lucrative? With that being said if you are one of those girls who needs to see your boyfriend EVERYDAY....I'm probably not the best guy for you. I would like to meet someone with their own thing going on, someone working on their own life and not just trying to latch on to someone else's.
I was raised right and know how to treat a woman, although it doesn't hurt to have a readjustment done every now and then to keep my skills sharp. I am a very cerebral person, and a very logical person, and have learned recently that reason and logic have no place in a relationship......for the most part. I am learning to put those things aside when the most important thing is not being right, but being happy together.....it's been a struggle but I'm getting there. I've been told that my intelligence is intimidating, and that my humility could use some fortifying. So if you are looking for a semi-cocky, smart guy, who knows how to treat a lady, has ambition and wants a family (as long as it's all boys)....you can stop looking at other profiles and concentrate on this one.
Now I'm not saying that I am THE best guy in Dallas, but I might be the best guy for you! I am not saying that I am the most handsome guy in Dallas, but I overheard someone say it once...so what that it was my mom...she never lies and she's a damn saint.....so argue with that! Girls always notice these things about me, and not necessarily in this order: Eyes, Teeth (smile), and that I have the ass of a Kenyan male track athlete.
If any of these appeal to you, I encourage you to try and catch my attention! I am looking for someone who takes care of themself, does not have weird hangups about intimacy, can hold a conversation, and wants a family. I am not looking to get laid on this site, I think I have enough personality and charm to go to a bar any night of the week and get that accomplished if that's what I was looking for, and I actually prefer to wait on that stuff, but I have recently had a string of girlfriends who have self confidence issues and a lot of other issues with expressing their affection physically. So if you are one of those, you probably aren't ready to date....period, let alone a guy like me who enjoys the hand holding, kissing and physical displays of affection...when that time comes obviously.
I promise to make you feel beautiful....if you promise to let me
win at least one argument in front of my friends. If I don't respond please don't be offended, I am a busy guy, I also know that not every girl I write to is going to respond, it's a numbers game. If we meet and don't click....again, don't be offended and neither will I if it isn't there for you. As my dad said "It's called fishing not catching son, patience is a virtue".