I love to hang out and am very laid back and relaxed. Humor is important because life is hilarious. Looking to meet someone who loves life and wants to enjoy it to the fullest! I enjoy going out and being social, so my mate will need to be the same way. Very confident in who I am and I need someone who is also confident and knows who she is and what she wants. I also enjoy just being alone with my mate, talking and dreaming about the future, our wants, desires, hopes, fears, experiences and expectations. Knowing what you want is one of the most important things in a relationship. I'm 36 years old, 5 foot 11, 235 pounds. I have Blonde hair (shaved right now), green hazel eyes that can change shades with certain clothing and lighting, a few visible tattoos and have both my ears pierced.I teach online at Grand Canyon University in Phoenix. I love my job and can see teaching for a long time to come. I'm also currently pursuing my Ph.D in Leadership at Tennessee Temple University. I'm an avid guitar player and even have a demo album that I finished several years ago. I absolutely love the Boston Red Sox and perhaps have an unhealthy addiction to everything in regards to Red Sox Nation. The only thing that thrills me more than the Red Sox, is the beach. I grew up surfing in North San Diego County and return there every few months to stay in contact with my friends, enjoy the ocean and recharge my batteries.The woman I'm looking for must love my kids and she must be willing to develop a relationship with them, as we are a package deal. If my mate has children, I will obviously do everything in my power to connect with her kids and be the best man I can be for them. I've been out of the dating scene for over 13 years, so I have no idea what kind of woman is looking for a guy like me, but I believe that she exists! What I do know is what I want and what I'm looking for, which I think will be a huge advantage as I begin this new leg of the journey that is life.