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34 year old man
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States

Seeking:
women 28-36
Within:
75 Miles of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm going to take a bit of a different approach to a match profile. Let me start by being fairly blunt. I'm here for a reason and not interested in wasting your time or mine, I’m not exactly a spring chicken anymore! If you are interested in hooking up or dating just for the sake of dating please do us both a favor and continue your search elsewhere.

Still with me? If so, here's a bit about me.
I refuse to believe chivalry is dead. Rather, an overwhelming percentage of men out there aren’t willing and eager to treat a woman the way I think a man should. I just moved back to OKC in Jan 2014. It was my 11th relocation since 2003 and will be my last. Most of those moves I had no control of, I was in the Navy and they were called orders. It's been an interesting ride and there are lots of stories to tell, but I'm ready to stay in one place and start building a life and memories with someone special. It would have been great to have someone to experience it all with, but that wasn’t in the cards; thus match.

My family is very important to me. I'm the youngest of three and both my brothers (also my best friends) live in Dallas. In Oct '12 I moved to Dallas from DC to be closer to them. I love spending time with my nieces and it's important to me that they know their Uncle Bobo.

In no particular order my interests in life are varying amounts of family, faith, the outdoors, golf, athletic adventures, time with friends and work. You'll be hard pressed to get me in a setting I'm uncomfortable with. I might be the luckiest guy in the world to come from a great family with parents approaching their 40th anniversary and two older brothers that are my best friends. While we have our differences and disagreements (we are far from perfect) I recognize that I've been very blessed with the family I have. Attempting to duplicate my family is neither what I'm interested in nor what I’m looking for. Not only is it impossible, but there are things I hope to do differently.

What I am interested in is a loving marriage that is mutually supportive and stimulating with my best friend/partner in crime. Wherever that takes us will be great because two are better than one, and if we are lucky enough to have kiddos that would be outstanding. I view marriage as a team effort built on mutual love and respect for each other. It won’t always be wine and roses but all the many aspects of love, respect, communication, compromise and sacrifice for each other and the greater good of the family will help us get through the rougher patches.

There are many more layers of the onion to peel back and share but hopefully this gives you a good flavor for who I am and where I’m coming from. This profile probably comes off a bit gruff, opinionated, and cold. Experiences have shaped this profile; some good, some not so good. At the end of the day I consider myself a laid back normal guy from a good family looking for a normal gal interested in having a blast on some great adventures as we get to know each other and see where life takes us.


Here are a few bullet points that I hope describe you:

-Family is important to you
-You are intelligent and can carry on thought provoking conversations
-You like being active and possibly even playing golf (a guy can hope can't he?!)
-You have an eye toward the long term (aka marriage) but you aren't in a rush
-You know chemistry really matters and you're not going to be able to assess that by reading a match profile
-You aren't a Stage 5 clinger!

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Golf, Running, Skiing, Swimming
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

Sam is black lab that's almost 11 years old. He still has the energy of a puppy, he snores like a freight train and he'll lick you to death. Basically he's the best dog in the world! Can you tell I'm a bit biased?

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

time with family and friends, a good run, a good bike ride, hunting, golf, the lake

Favorite hot spots:

Work has taken me all over the world. International fave's: Australia, Singapore, Spain, Italy and Saipan

Locally:
Looking forward to exploring OKC now that I'm back
You can never go wrong at the lake or cooking out with good company

Favorite things:

good times with friends, the fireplace at our lake house, family, being outdoors

Last read:

Looking for a good suggestion. Started reading Quiet but couldn't get into it. Recently read Killing Lincoln and Killing Kennedy. I read the WSJ 4-5 days a week. Nonfiction suggestions welcomed.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference

Was in the Navy for a while then worked in management consulting for a Big 4 firm and I'll tell ya the rest later

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

My ancestors fought in the Revolutionary War. I'm pretty sure that makes me 'Merican

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Undergrad degree and MBA both from large universities

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