I am a motivated individual and I know the idea of what I want. I can't seem to make that idea a reality. I would like to have a conversation where we are at least on a page in the same book. I love my family and like to spend a lot of time with them. I also work a lot and need someone who is flexible and willing to accept I can't see them every single day. I strongly believe it is healthy to argue, but not full-on fight. I am stubborn, but know when to give in, I love to cook with foods I will never eat. I secretly wish I had become a sniper for my profession. I also wish I was a vegetarian, just can't seem to do it! I am looking for funny, sweet, nice, caring, goal orientated, someone with a strong work ethic, someone who would support me and the decisions I make, but not be scared to tell me when I am making a stupid mistake. I like real-time, I don't live in the past and look forward to the future, I would like it if you did too. You must love your mother. I am not looking for hook-ups or one night stands, I want a long term relationship, I want to settle down, but I will not rush things that shouldn't be. I have manners and use them whenever I can and would like it if you did too. I need to be kept in line every once in awhile, but who doesn't. I don't back down from confrontation, I argue a point when I strongly believe I am right, but always allow a rebuttle. I do not put up with cheating, nor should you. I want to live a long happy life with someone I can never get sick of. I want lots of animals, mainly dogs and cats and at some point horses. I am scared to death of flying, but would love to travel. A good time is great, as long as you have good company.