I am looking for someone who is confident in himself (completely outside of the realm of careers)-knowing who he is as a person and appreciates the same in his partner (no matter how different she may be).
I must say that first and foremost, there must be physical attraction. Without that "spark," in my opinion, not much can occur for me. Secondly, a highly educated man who can like a girl who reads the words of Bourdain, eats at Cochon in NOLA, and loves the music of Chris Botti is a plus. I've driven from Fairbanks, AK back to TX and saw it as one of the best experiences of my life. I consider my homes away from home as Anchorage and New Orleans (but TX of course as our "great nation").
"Slow" is the name of the game. My children come first in my life above all things and other people.
My "ideal guy": Christian Bale meets Harry Connick Jr. Is that possible?