I am a very hard working caring person, and I'm looking for someone I can share myself and possibly someday my daughter's with. I don't need a replacement for there mother she is and always will be a huge part of their lives, I would just like to meet someone I trust enough to introduce them to and know that they won't be a negative influence on any of us. I don't drink and spend all my time with my buddy's I believe the person your in a relationship with should be your best friend and you can spend your time with them and be happier than hanging with friends and complaining about whoever your with. Don't get me wrong I understand people have their own lives and sometimes certain things don't involve whoever your partner is but there also has to be somewhat of a balance in that. To be honest this whole thing seems kind of silly to think that you can't make any reasonable judgement call on a person with a few fill in the blanks and winks but I guess you never know someone may take that chance.