Independence, intelligence, and confidence are the sexiest things a woman can have, and a good woman appreciates those things when she finds them in a man. Everyone needs to be honest about what it is they want.
I spent 5 years teaching public high school here in Las Vegas. I retired to pursue a career in live entertainment, and I currently work for a well-known show. I still volunteer with the school program I helped build over the course of the last 10 years... so when I say I don't have kids, what I mean is I have a few hundred, but I get to give them all back when I'm done with them.
I also am heavily involved in a style of drumming that helps me keep in touch with my musical background, allows me to travel and meet with others, and involves me in learning about cultures which are not my own.
I'm a pretty busy guy, and I'm looking for a woman who has her own thing going... someone who wants to spend her free time with me because we're crazy about each other, and when the time comes to get back to work she handles her business.