People keep telling me to leave LA in order to find a good man. Can this be the reality? I see lots of my friends with great guys but every time I get up at bat, seems to be a strike or a ball or walk or a touchdown whatever. I was so freaked out during my 39th year that I'm proud to announce that I'm 40! You know that age where little kids look at you and say "Mommy, I don't want to be all alone when I'm 40." The age when your Plenty of Fish profile deteriorates in value. Yes, I'm running out of time. But somewhere on the cliffs of Negril, I realized that I was running out of time last year, and the year before. So now I'm going to get smarter with my time. I'm so sick of old flames hitting me up on Facebook, texting me and trying to seduce me back on Words with Friends. I'm so tired of meeting a great guy who then wants to meet up at 11PM, because he's working on "4 projects at the same time" (cept 1AM). You know what I mean? I'm sure you have had this happen to you as well, LA is a crazy town, for connecting with people. With the quality of cable TV so high, actually getting up and going out to meet someone can be taxing.
I know there's a ton of great people out there, I meet them every day, everywhere I go. I would just like to meet a super hot, jewel of a guy. Super HOT. The type that make my friends jealous. I tried to settle at the end of my 30's and I'm so glad that it did not work out. So, you and I HAVE to have chemistry. I'm not lying about my age, so you can't lie about your height. I want my friends who have been married for 10 years or scrambled to pick anyone at 39 to be like scratching their heads and wishing they had waited when they see you. You can't be boring. I'm a very dynamic individual who makes boring people feel very comfortable and they attract to me like a magnet. But guess what...THEY BORE ME. Secretly. My old profile which you may have read before this was updated, was very boring and banal and safe. There's a lot of people on here now and some of you may know me - so I had to sort of like sanitize it so that my mom and anyone who I may know would approve of it and see that I'm completely open and NOT a stuck up beatch or control freaky deeky whatever and that I'm a warm heart-ed individual and extremely caring, with pets, animals and children. But nobody cares about that stuff. They want to know that I'm a girl worth talking about, and I am. I may not be the most beautiful girl in the room but I make people feel insecure with my confidence. I'm finally at that place where I can be unapologetic, and I am. Are you?