So time to update this... Well my life has taken me places I didn't know I would go and experience things one does not experience on a daily basis. I'm an all over the map kind of guy Chicago, Az, Arkansas, Missouri, Indiana and Fargo. I've learned so much about my self from every place I have been and here recently in Fargo I've learned the most about myself. One is to never give up. I've been through hell and back in relationships and the thing is I'm glad that I have. I've met some really nice guys and some not so nice. But I'll keep trucking till I find mr right! Two, To thy own self be true! Meaning don't change for anyone be who you are.. I've dealt with this a lot lately and I'm coming to terms on who I really am as a person and I couldn't be happier! Three, let go and move on.. Meaning I have learned to let go of things holding on to things make you bitter! Four, return to your roots. Family is very important to me I'm out and my family accepts every part of me and I just want Someone who is comfortable with themselves as well! These are the four things I've learned recently and I'm glad that I have! Our lives are filled with twist and turns and up and downs we have to choose to keep moving forward! Im a nice guy with some core values and just want to be able to actually be able to call someone his boyfriend!