My name is Ben. I take life day by day. I've been described by other people as "chill", "polite", "good-hearted", and my personal favorite, "one of the coolest guys you'll ever meet". Whether any of that is actually true is up to you to decide. However, I still try to live up to those expectations on a daily basis. Everyone likes a good-hearted, polite and chill person to kick it with, right? although I take life day by day, I do have the future in the back of my head. I'm only exploring my options to see what works best for me. I'm an aspiring music producer; it's a dream I'm chasing. But I also understand that I should definitely have a career under my belt, and that's what I'm currently focusing on. Producing music is just a hobby at this point. I'm looking for someone who I can be myself around, and someone who feels the same around me. Compatibility i guess is what I'm mostly looking for. I would like someone who is outgoing but not too crazy. I'm a little timid, so I usually tell people that I don't like going to parties. I don't mind the occasional party, but I never get wild. I also want someone who doesn't mind staying at home and watching a movie. That doesn't mean I never want to go out, but I'm a very relaxed type of individual so sometimes it's too much.