Nothing lasts forever, so live it up, drink it down, laugh it off, avoid the BS, take chances, never have regrets, because at one point, everything you did was exactly what you wanted!
About ME?...I have a dry sense of humor, am sarcastic yet sincere, positive, down to earth, enjoy a good laugh and try not to take myself too seriously. I was born and raised in the South Pacific and have lived in the U.S for about 14 yrs. I'm comfortable and confident in the person I am and, therefore, do not pretend to be someone or something I'm not. Having said that, I like to surround myself with REAL people who are comfortable being themselves; I don't like pretentious or superficial people, drama and don't tolerate BS from anyone. I'm not interested in tweaking any part of what makes you~ "YOU" and expect no different in return. If you're attracted to me and the feeling is not mutual- don't take it personally - I'm very straight forward and not going to string you along if I'm not intrigued. My parents raised me with strong moral values that I'm proud to hold on to because it has kept me grounded over the years. If there's something you want to know about me, by all means please ask! Good~open communication, honesty and trust are vital components for any relationship to work; if you're incapable of any of those, save us both the time now and move on to the next profile! All friendships/relationships start out new, fun, exciting...blah blah blah~ get my drift? ...and if you're the type of person who gets off on that initial "high" without the desire to develop a friendship/relationship on a deeper level with one person then I'm not the one for you. I'm looking for an honest, expressive man with a great sense of humor, intelligence, confidence, ambition, sincerity, personality, and a little spontaneity every now and then is not a bad thing either. Connecting with that special someone should come naturally and not feel 'forced'. Having said that I don't want to be rushed. Love has the possibility to blossom from a great friendship so let's start out as friends and see where it goes. I'm open to new ideas and challenges....within reason. There are chances that I may not like some things or may not have tried doing exactly everything you have listed under the 'interests' of your profile....I don't see that as a bad thing but do think SOME common interests shared are important. Live your life doing the things that make you happy. Life is too short to spend it being miserable, alone, with the wrong person or someone who just doesn't appreciate you. The "right" person for you will not only embrace your differences but love and respect you more for your confidence to be the individual and unique person you truly are. We live in the present, we dream of the future, but we learn eternal truths from the past. "I've lived, I've loved, I've lost, I've missed, I've trusted, I've hurt, I've made mistakes, but most of all, I've learned."
So enough about me already; tell me about yourself! What defines you? Enlighten me