Instead of what I want.. I will list what are deal breakers for me: If you are lazy, think that cats count as pets, have nasty teeth, would rather complain than celebrate, don't like being outside, are an obsessed Packer's fan, aren't fit or think that being fit isn't important, don't like coffee (it's delicious, by the way), want to push your friends on me, or think that someone can't just have a night apart (don't be a clinger).
Oh yeah.. me: I am in good shape, I work out several times a week. I have a job that I really enjoy, and friends that I wouldn't trade for anyone. Anyway, I love live music, going to sporting events, good food, and the occasional drink. I love to be outside.. the lake in the summer is a common place to find me. I also enjoy cooking when I can, and I think that I make a pretty great mixed drink. Spontaneity is great, and keeps life moving in a direction that isn't one of boredom or repetition.
It's a simple as this for me: let's see what life can be like if you leave the drama in the past. Move on. If you have a past you aren't proud of.. it doesn't matter to me. What matters is how you act now, and how you live going forward.