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30 year old man
Phoenix, Arizona, United States

Seeking:
women 22-33
Within:
100 Miles of Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

**I can only see winks and wink back, sorry. (worthless, I know)

My name's Thaddaeus. I'm gonna cheat here and say... if we've winked at each other... It's not too hard...

I'm a transparent person who is always curious, never bored, and ready to keep an open mind. I like women who are intelligent and like to laugh. I crave honesty and realness. I'm down with making friends but would like to be married again one day. I take my time getting to know people, so... no hurry. =)

I'm looking for someone who has been changed by Jesus. I'm not interested in pursuing women who aren't into Jesus. He said some pretty radical stuff and though I'm far from perfect, (*cough, divorced) my aim is to follow him. I'm very attracted to girls with the same mind.

I'm looking for someone who wants to share life, and work toward the same goals as a team. Someone who can put up with my need to cuddle, and also my desire for more passionate pursuits ;-) Someone who believes in persistence, commitment, and understands that when "Feeling in love" stops -- It's just time that we choose to keep loving. Because that's when the real love begins.

I'm passionate about helping others. I've lived through and seen too much suffering in the world to just sit and do nothing. I'm passionate about communication. It's what connects us and is the bridge-building material necessary to heal and bring understanding. I'm passionate about Jesus and what he said and did. We were made to live - and love - in community, in an environment of relational intimacy and respect. I'm passionate about sharing exciting or beautiful things with others. Music is beautiful, stories are beautiful, nature is beautiful, life is beautiful.

I love working with people, and for people; I work in a treatment facility for youth who are being given a second chance. I'm very extroverted but people tell me I'm very safe and approachable. Talking to strangers is fun but I feel shy inside every time I do. And I like bacon. A lot.

[ABOUT MONEY] - I'm not materialistic. This DOES mean I don't have much money, and I don't make it a goal to be wealthy. I will NOT be your piggy bank. I don't expect women to stay at home - they can work if they want to. I don't see my purpose in life as being "making money to raise a family". (see below about babies) I want to have a few nice things, I like taking care of what I have and I am sort of snobby about what I buy. It's got to be good. But I don't have to have the newest/coolest/etc. crap.

[ABOUT BABIES] - I know there's a lot of women out there looking for making babies and raising families, STAT. I'm not in a hurry to do this, and I'm NOT sure I want this at all. I AM interested in Fostering and Adoption. I am NOT AGAINST a woman who has a kid. Having children is a 25-30 year commitment (seriously, how many of you still live at your parents?) and requires several hundred thousands of dollars. Because I am into Social Work I try to focus my effort and money into helping those already born rather than bring any new ones into the world.

[ABOUT DATES] - I don't buy your food on the first, and maybe even the 2nd/3rd dates. Me paying for you is me saying "I want to take care of you." I don't know you yet, so let's be friends at first. If you want to call it cheap, I don't mind. Men paying for women's needs is powerfully symbolic to me and I don't throw it at every woman I run across.

I'm going to answer your questions, so feel extremely free to ask them. I'm not afraid of opening up about my past, about my joys or my sorrows. Good luck and happy searching!

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I don't hate cats, but I'm allergic to them.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
Washburn University, Topeka, KS
For fun:

A few things that are fun for me are: trying new restaurants; listening to bands (new or old to me); outdoorsy things; watching movies in or out; lingering too long at coffee shops; and being out late. Working on my, or others cars.

Favorite hot spots:

Lux Coffee Bar (any coffee shop); somewhere with a good happy hour; Tempe Marketplace for their movie theater; stuff in Downtown Phoenix, where I live

Favorite things:

Digital photography, Local arts and music, showing interesting things/places/persons to my friends. Talking about many things. Quiet time in prayer, alone or with others. Talking to strangers, smiling, LEARNING about everything. Car/motorcycle things

Last read:

I Am Number 4. The Irresistible Revolution: Living as an Ordinary Radical. Game of Thrones (first 2 so far!). The Bible. Some C.S. Lewis. I'm currently doing some pre-reading of books by authors who have heavily affected the field of Social Work.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
4'0" (121cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist
No preference

I'm a Youth Care Worker. I work with young felons in a treatment center.

Income:
$25,001 to $35,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Other, Christian / Other

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Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I've recently applied for a Masters program, but have not yet begun.

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