People that are in relationship's ask themselves the question.. "Am I happy?"... This is the wrong way to look at your life. It's misleading to believe you will always feel happy. Life is about the memories you make. The good and the bad times. It's the simplest things that matter. Of course not to insinuate that you can not be with someone who makes you happy, just that this should not solely define the relationship.
Interesting women can see the big picture. Confidence and ambition are very attractive. Proves to be a hard task meeting genuine people with those qualities. Good times are also something to cherish. I like women who aren't above drinking a good beer. But its not about the drink, its about being open to trying new things. No two beers are the same. A cold Fat Tire and some sushi make for an interesting evening. I use ideas such as these symbolically in my mind, which definitely all have a deeper meaning than just a beverage.
People go on dates and act like they are interested in the other. They almost always mask how awkward it is initially with small talk and dishonest characteristics about themselves. This is no way to build trust. A false sense of reality is displayed at first perhaps as a way to cope with past failures. In the words of Will Smith.. Sometimes you have to forget what's gone, appreciate what still remains, and look forward to what's coming next...
Yes I am divorced. And I have a beautiful son. Are you going to be judgmental of me? Most likely the answer will be yes.. You will be.. Things do not always go in life as we once planned.. Maybe before quick assumptions are made, I love my son more than myself. I know I am an excellent father and always will be. I love being his father, protector, and enjoy watching him grow to be just like me. I plan to instill in him the same morals and values given to me by my family. Just remember this as 2pac once said.. Only GOD can judge me...
I definitely have high ambitions with where I want my career to go. For now, its back to the basics. And bar hoppin to meet people isn't really my scene. As far as what I'm looking for being on this site.. Someone that likes to have good conversation and appreciates the effort I make towards them... :)
