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35 year old man
Tukwila, Washington, United States

Seeking:
women 28-42
Within:
50 Miles of Seattle, Washington, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'2" (187cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

'I feel therefore I am free.' - Audre Lorde

I've rewritten my profile a fair share during my time here (from the more poetic to the more matter-of-fact and virtually everywhere in between) but the only truly meaningful relationship I can imagine being in is one in which my partner resonates with what makes me tick or at least allows it to flourish in their midst. It's a mystery to me who this will be, but that doesn't change what it all comes down to in my world. I make time each day for being, doing and studying what I'm utterly passionate about. These are time-tested, source of my strength, bedrock:

- Presence/Companionship
- Genetics/Origin
- Love/Intelligence

That's really about it. That's the "secret sauce." In other words I prefer to be authentic and genuine, even if that isn't necessarily "cool" or "attractive." I'm vulnerable and kind, but firm when I need to be. I'm not the same person everyday so-to-speak. I change, adapt, learn and laugh.

For you can travel the world, be fit, have a Ph.D., make a millions of dollars every year, yet not be a human being. Have you worked in the humanitarian/service/hospitality industry for a stint in your adult life? Perhaps that should be almost a requirement for my partner. You really see the character or lack of it in people there I think. How you treat others is indicative of what you're all about and why you think you're here.

If I ever have children, I'd like to think their mother chose a man whom embodies what humanity needs in order to evolve beyond immediate gratification, self-absorption and obsession with the "next thing." Beyond separatism, nihilism, elitism. Beyond vanity.

Yes, I believe women hold significant power to decide humanity's next step in evolution by whom they choose as a mate. E.g the next time you see a man riding a motorcycle with "mufflers" that do little but project the sound of rapid, concentrated explosions directly into the cochlea of a newborn's ears, consider the violence done and whether it's wise to continue.

That said I'm drawn to a beautiful metaphor that blends the aforementioned essentials together into a potent, palpable concoction. And that's the process of creating tea. So if one's Presence is both the container and hot water that is to become the medium of one's essence in this world, then our Genetics are like the stir rod, which facilitates its infusion into our world or universality. This infusion is made possible by Love that's the "energetic glue," the Intelligence or coherent core upon which our uniqueness shines, despite our all too human imprimatur and limitations.

Yes, I believe love is powerfully intelligent, not just a mere sentiment or whim of chemistry.

First-and-foremost a companion to me is one whom simply accompanies me. Perhaps that's a little naive or simplistic, but the rest are details that can be filled-in later. After all a partnership forms over time and organically out of our own design, yet without companionship there is no basis for it.

Anyway the reason why I'm here is because I need someone who is like a catalyst in my world. While exploration and discovery can be exciting, someone who wants to play with me, experiment and APPLY our wisdom into something more meaningful for all of us is what I'm ready for at this stage in life. Honestly I can't think of any work more fulfilling.

And yes, I said work and play! [laughs]

Contact me if you are seeking a companion and a partner whom is emotionally coherent, mentally attuned, physically primed and spiritually imperative. There are many ways to say the same thing, but in-the-end being a companion and partner with someone is perhaps the greatest challenge I'll ever face. And one I'm ready to face (other than just being alone, which I have been for sometime now). There is no where else to go. I've been there and the proverbial grass isn't necessarily greener. In fact, it's a desert, rippling heat...

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

...adopting a pure bred (male and female) Doberman Pinscher is still in the planning stages, but on its way to becoming a reality.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Leo
College:
Indiana University–Purdue University Fort Wayne, Fort Wayne, IN
For fun:

Reading, Studying, Meditating, Dancing, Journaling, Exercising, Practicing. Everything from Soil to Soul...

Favorite hot spots:

I love the desert Southwest and would jump at the opportunity to take a world tour. My first destination would be Australia and its red dirt.

Favorite things:

"World Music" is my all round favorite genre of music. I especially gravitate to the primal resonance of rhythm, but am utterly enraptured by melody's ability to smooth and taper its edges into a sonic odyssey of harmony.

Last read:

The Weather Composer ~ James Mahu

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'2" (187cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Travel / Hospitality / Transportation
No preference

I'm an investor at heart and have a day job I enjoy. I love giving back, sharing and making things better, especially for loved one's whom have sacrificed dearly to give me the best chance they could. Gratitude is the currency of the new.

Income:
$25,001 to $35,000
$25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Mostly European descent according to accredited 3rd party genealogical records (in the year 2013).

Faith:
Agnostic
Agnostic, Spiritual but not religious

The only choice we don't have is that we have choices, which to me dissolves the delusion of the "free will" universe and allows the living truth to shine forth through our everyday lives. It's practical and intuitive intelligence aka 'Divine Love.'

Languages:
English
Arabic, Chinese, English, French, Japanese, Spanish
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I'm generally andragogical in my approach to learning. This has its drawbacks of course, but overall, I choose to preserve the mobility of my consciousness rather than its indoctrination. That being said, art and science are a passion of mine.

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