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32 year old woman
Tacoma, Washington, United States

Seeking:
men 31-38
Within:
50 Miles of Tacoma, Washington, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

*quoth Oscar Wilde MatchBlog 4/7 - Personality Typing
I am ENTP: Extraverted Intuitive Thinking Perceiving ENTP is one of the rarer types in the population. ENTPs make up: 3%of the general population 4% of men 2%of women Also ENTP: Socrates, Benjamin Franklin, Oscar Wilde, Steve Wozniak, Henry Kissinger, Jon Stewart, Robert Downey Jr., Diablo Cody To be ENTP means I look deeper into everything. I am always searching for the meaning beneath the visage. To continue the V word usage, ENTPs are often seen as Visionaries. We are considered the most introverted of the extraverts. I don't judge. Instead I seek to understand why. My eternal quest is to better myself across every spectrum. Some would call it self actualization, but as I've said in a previous post, I don't ever want to get there - I'd get bored. I see patterns and connections in words, relationships, systems... Probably why I kill at Scrabble. Challenge me if you don't believe me. :cracking knuckles: I am too blunt for my own good, but I never mean to hurt anyone by it. To counter this I have put much effort into understanding points of view apart from mine as well as into fine tuning my "observing ego", or being self aware of how your words and actions are perceived by others. I've worked so hard at empathy that I've become a chick that cries, ugh. Still wouldn't go back despite my newfound sappiness. If you tell me I can't, my reply will be, "Watch me." And then I will prove you wrong. My preferred communication, relating, and life navigating style is all aboard the SOC** Express! I am interested in everyone that enters my orbit. I am fiercely loyal and will make personal sacrifices without hesitation if needed for someone I care about. My feathers don't ruffle easily and I can forgive some pretty ridiculous behavior, but I do have a limit. Backing me into a corner is not advisable. I'm a pacifist at heart but should you leave me no choice I will defend myself, at which point you likely won't see the semi hurtling toward you until it's 2 inches from your face. Crossing someone I love will ignite the same reaction, sans grace period. I must admit, it's not easy being me. People aren't particularly keen to accept a chick with dynamic but logical ideas. Society doesn't quite know what to do with a woman who is willing to rock the boat, which makes me an anomaly/enigma/strange/scary depending on who you ask. Men both young and old seem to have a natural inclination to put me down or just ignore me if they suspect I might have a better plan or more knowledge on a given topic, despite exhausting efforts on my part to prevent this from happening. (these observations have been mostly related to the workplace - my friends are self-confident, bada$$ gangsters) I know sometimes I perpetuate negative reactions because, well, I get fed up! This causes me to be defensive, resulting in my shell hardening, which only serves to cut people off rather than let them in. So, for the record, I am 100% human. My heart has been shattered and I have been wrong more times than right. I not only talk to my pets but make up awful songs for them daily. I have an irrational fear that gravity will shrug it's shoulders and let go at any moment, projecting us all into infinity and beyond. Point being, I'm the last person anyone should feel weird around. But, I do love who I am. It took me a goddamn long time to figure it out, and I am thankful for every gut-wrenching, cringe-worthy, exhausting step that got me here. Gratefulness is my most valued possession. I am sharing this because... after all, we are but nanoscopic specks in a fathomless universe. Perhaps my journey will offer light to a fellow speck. :)

Who I seek is fairly simple: a subtly self-confident badass; grounded, gentlemanly, up for the unexpected, and not afraid of your own emotional shadow. Cheers, Aristot-MeL
**Stream Of Consciousness

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Dancing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have one feline daughter. Rather, she has me.

*Update - have been adopted by stray Pomeranian

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Cancer
College:
University of Washington, Tacoma, Tacoma, WA
For fun:

Writing, reading, thinking, unthinking what I was thinking, learning something new, applying what I learned, promptly forgetting about what I just learned and applied, being near large bodies of water, shopping, mindless television, blah dee blahblah

Favorite hot spots:

Westport, WA. Providence, RI. Florence, Italy. London, UK. Tacoma, WA. My couch.

Favorite things:

Personality theory, Moxie, the beach, EZ Mac, writing, rap songs that I know the words to, wine, My People, learning new sh*t every day, promoting understanding and mutual respect among mankind (and I don't care how hippie that sounds).

Last read:

The Night Circus, The Tao of Daily Life, Afterward, Sister, Ender's Game, The Giver, Makeup Don't Breakup (interpret how you will), Please Understand Me, currently reading Lean In.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'10" (177cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

I slang energy efficiency! Love you Earth! And special projects for a large mechanical engineering contractor. Also a columnist, usually by deadline. Real writers procrastinate. What day is it?

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

My grandparents hail from North Dakota and Buckley; before that things get a little fuzzy. My ancestors journeyed from Poland, Ireland, Norway, Scotland, Wales - family lore suggests that my last name may not rightfully be mine...

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I completed one year of a Master's degree that I hope to finish someday. Except I don't, because the education system is a complete racket.

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