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Active over 3 weeks ago

37 year old man
San Mateo, California, United States

Seeking:
women 25-40
Within:
50 Miles of San Mateo, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

So I decided to rewrite this thing. I was on Match a couple years ago, but right as I began to date again my ex-girlfriend came back into my life. The year following turned out to not yield any positive results.
Anyway, I have recently relocated to the bay area for a job. Before this I was in Nashville, TN and I am originally from Iowa. I have never been married, but have a daughter who lives away with whom I am in daily correspondence and contact. At this age, never having been married seems to be a little awkward, but I am sure there are lots of unhappily married people out there.
Anyway, I have been browsing the profiles on here and I have a few observations. Many of the women's self descriptions seem cliche and hard to differentiate between. I don't think there are many people who dislike traveling....and it's fun to see all the pictures of people skydiving and doing adventurous things, but it doesn't really tell me much about you. I'm far more interested in your ideas and thoughts that define you and your personality. I have a whole bunch of information on my profile below(from a couple years ago) about my interests and passions, but I realized that without the fundamental ability to sit down and be comfortable around someone else with no external stimuli or distractions, my wants and must haves don't mean much.
My last relationship wasn't ideal, because my girlfriend had issues with sarcasm, being a perfectionists and having control over every situation as well as being very critical. There are healthy amounts of these things to have, but too much is lethal to a relationship. Letting someone be themselves is vital to a healthy, growing relationship. Also, looks fade. That's the reality. At the end of the day it takes conscious effort to make a relationship successful. One willing participant is not enough. At this point I am willing to be in a relationship or just be good friends.


***My Profile from a couple years ago***

Intelligence, wittiness, humor, confidence, and passion are what I find most attractive. I am not an expert at Linguistics, but I DO appreciate someone who can spell and punctuate and has a diverse vocabulary.
1. I am a good judge of character and can usually tell a lot about them by how they communicate.
2. I have a special appreciation for cuddly animals, senior citizens, and cute things that toddlers say.
3. Physical fitness and good health are important to me.
4. I have forced myself over the years to go out on a limb and eat foods that are new and interesting.
5. I moved here from Nashville, but originally am from Iowa. I work in the IT field. I grew up in Iowa miss the people, but not the climate.
I have made my fair share of mistakes in relationships past. Hopefully a ghost never visits me and shows it to me all over again. Anyway, my point is that I have gained much wisdom over the years regarding male/female relationships so whoever I end up with is going to reap the benefits of all my previous learning.

Music is the biggest part of my life. I write, perform, and record my own songs. I think and daydream in song form. I even brush my teeth in rhythm to whatever song is on in the background. My ideal mate would have a huge knowledge and appreciation for music.

I'm really not a typical guy. I am bored by mundane and repetitious things and am always searching for new experiences, places, and foods to try. Probably a little bit ADD!

A good match would be a woman who has no baggage or has dealt with it already.
Anyway, I love watching, listening, and performing to music. I enjoy creative women and not so much the career type unless they have a creative outlet outside of work.
I am stubborn and have strong opinions on things and I respect other people who do. I want a friend first and relationship if things go particularly well. And if they go horrible I want your permission to write and sell a book about it. There needs to be some kind of silver lining.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Sing, play music, travel to places I've never been. I've been most places in the United States, but recently got my passport and want to see Montreal, Australia, England, Ireland, Germany, Israel, Japan, Korea, and anywhere else with cool culture.

Favorite hot spots:

I live in West Nashville and work in Green Hills so I usually end up in those places, but I like going downtown and have ventured over to East Nashville a few times.

Favorite things:

Avett Brothers, The Killers, The Shins, Merle Haggard, Fleet Foxes, Ben Folds, Ryan Adams, Death Cab, Fiona Apple, Feist, The Format, Postal Service, Radiohead

Last read:

The War Of Art- A book about winning creative battles regarding procrastination.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I do IT work for a tech company.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Protestant
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Associates degree
High school

I enjoy learning new things in whatever I'm doing, whether it's cooking, working on computers, cars, or obtaining new certifications.

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