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"You can't depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus" "If all you want is happiness, we would not be happy"

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31 year old man
New York, New York, United States

Seeking:
women 22-38
Within:
20 Miles of New York, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am attracted to women that are in control and confident enough in their lives already to be ready for the flexibility that is needed to connect with someone. I also believe that I'll be happiest with someone that questions and defies convention. For me that's exciting. I know that puts me at a statistical disadvantage. That's ok. It only takes one.

Based on what I've read and heard so far, some people approach meeting their potential "match" in an idyllic way, as if relationships were fantasies from which all is received and little is given. One has to multi-task. If one can't date and also be fulfilled and happy in other parts of your life, that's a bit of an issue. The meeting part is fun and easy.

Since my arm is being twisted, I will say my best quality, honestly is being kind. I care about everyone I cross paths with. That may not resonate with many women, but I'm not looking for many of you ;). Besides that, my other qualities are: intelligence, humility and confidence (they go hand and hand), a great sense of humor, optimism and a heart that likes to hang out on my sleeve. Best habits: being healthy and active, listening and asking questions, and taking chances. If you want to learn more about me, ask away. Dialogue is much better, plus the best things and people in life are those that we discover ourselves.

Who am I looking for? It would be wonderful to meet a confident woman that has a sense of humor and wants to enjoy this truly amazing city. It would also be special and therefore valued and respected as such to know a woman that is exceptionally comfortable with herself and others, and so sees the world for what it is and all it can be... you know, like valuing people based on qualities they have cultivated and what they've done with those qualities.



My best friend will have an open mind and like to be active, explore and have obscene amounts of fun. She believes in the principle "you get what you give."



My take on dating apparently is different than many. Honestly, there are plenty of accomplished, interesting, fun-sounding women around. Being single is enjoyable, to be sure. That's just it though, I am interested in finding someone that makes me uninterested in other great options, not a relief that addresses some dearth of quality.



I am an optimist and that includes believing there is something great about everyone, but I don't get to know people online. So, if you are an intelligent, independent, and compassionate person with some time to invest, feel free to send me a note.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Running to new parts of NYC, cooking brunch, movies (Popcorn optional, candy not), spending time with friends new and old

Favorite hot spots:

Outside the US: Buenos Aires, Cape Town, Zanzibar, Capri and Naples, Sevilla, Rio, Barbados (home away from home) and Sydney

US: Park City, San Diego, Chicago, and several beaches

Places I love in NYC: Randolph's, Mother's Ruin, Hudson Clearwater

Favorite things:

Live music, exploring new parts of NYC on the subway or on a run, my neighborhood, cooking NYC's best brunch

Last read:

The Spy Who Came in From the Cold

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Financial / Accounting / Real Estate
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

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