I have spent the last several years of my life focusing first on being a mom and my career, which I am a ROCKSTAR at by the way :) I have been so driven that I have never taken the time to focus on myself, I am finally at a place in my life where I have the opportunity to be more sponateous, I am ready for an adventure.
People would describe me as an honest, responsible, caring and genuine and fun loving person who has a great sense of humor and is a little bit of a smart ass at the same time. I am very positive and look at life's challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become a bit stronger.
I'd rather be with a guy who has big dreams and no money than a guy with no dreams and big money. I must admit, I like a bit of a bad boy -- not an awful, I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap kind of guy, but someone who's going to push me to my limits and then pull back with a warm hug at the last minute. Truth is, I'm just a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking for some fun and companionship (not necessarily in that order). I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of '80s movies, your baseball card collection or the fact that you are a complete geek and love video games and comic books-- it doesn't matter. The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and we leave short, thoughtful messages for each other throughout the day. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. But I will say that if you've got blue eyes,have a love of live music, I'm already melting.
Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time.
I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and am optimistic that I will find someone to spend my life with. However at this time I just want to take things slow and have some fun times with a fantastic guy.