I have a strong personality at times, but only when needed. I like a person that can take control of a situation and I can take the backseat. Yes, I dont mind it if the person is making the decisions with both of us in mind and not just himself.
I want someone that will eventually be my best friend and the person I can turn to for strength and comfort. I want to be able to laugh at one anothers mishaps. :) I would say I am old fashioned in what I want in the long run. I want to be the strength behind my husband that only he gets to see. Really funny because I tend to have the outgoing make my own way personality. I cant expect everyone to be perfect..but perfect for each other. :) Maybe I am dreaming. Who knows...impress me.....
Mainly, I would like to find a person to get to know and not have this pressure of " is this the one?". I am fairly picky and like to take things slow. Just to make it clear I am on here to find a long term partner. I am not looking to have a friend..that leads to benefits fling. I am ready to start a life with someone and have experiences together
I don't want to put tons of stipulations on what he should be and how he needs to act. I am hoping I will know it when it comes accross. I am pretty open minded and have grown to become a completely different person then I was a couple of years ago.
I now have an ambition to find the person I am meant to be with. I would like him to encourage me in my life goals and be supportive as I will be with him. My friends and family have always come to me for support and advice. I would say that will be a strong aspect of any future friend. I don't tolerate people who are not willing to open up and try to learn from a situation rather then complain about it and make no changes to prevent it. I try and stay clear of drama and games. Not my style. It is what it is and move on. :) Be straight with me and I will give you the same courtesy in return. In the begining some see me as harsh, but I see it as getting rid of the weak. Once you get past the initial doubt I have, you will see a completely different side that very few have seen and very few will get to see. I will give all due respect where it is earned. I tend to gravitate to strong, open-minded, experienced, passionate, educated, cultured people. I can't get enough of a person that can continually open my eyes and teach me something new. I run with a close knit circle of family and friends. I would do anything for them. But they have definatly earned it.
I am sure most will be intimidated by most of this and I dont blame them. :) But for those who survive. Those are the ones I am looking for!
" To repeat what others have said, requires education; to challenge it requires brains "