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38 year old man
Sunnyside, New York, United States

Seeking:
women 21-40
Within:
77 Miles of Sunnyside, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am interested in being a fully self-expressed human without any limitations as an artist, thinker, athlete, and spiritual being. I believe that if there is someone who can share this passion for balance and adventure with me, all the better. If not, that is ok too. I will continue down this path alone until I meet a companion that seems to be the right match, either in this dimension, or any other.

I am bilingual (Spanish and English), so in a long-term relationship I am looking to meet someone who is (or soon will be) fluent in both Spanish and English. You don't have to be Latino/Hispanic (although there's nothing wrong with that, either), but since Spanish is such a strong part of my family, I would like my partner to feel included. Speaking Spanish, therefore, becomes an important part of communication to me.

I tried to post something here in Spanish, but it was deleted by Match.com, probably because it goes against their policies. What I basically said was that education and intelligence are as important to me as affection. I have had relationships where there was very strong passion and chemistry, but where there was very little thought given to anything, even to important issues, like the most damaging aspects of our society. Also, dance is very important. According to the wisest leaders, the sex in a relationship fades over time, but dancing can continue until death. A couple dancing together are able to physically express and celebrate the sensuality of the body, while holding tightly to the deepest intimacies that brought them together in the first place.

I have many flaws, just like all humans. Therefore, I am constantly working to improve myself--looking to wisdom, courage, creativity, compassion, and love (I mean true love, which I've been told I have some "radical" ideas about by my friends; I'll be happy to share them with you) as guides. I expect my future partner to do the same with herself. We are not perfect; I believe that our purpose in life is to work out the kinks and generate happiness for ourselves, and therefore others, in the meantime. We should not try to fix or change each other. Life can be short, or very long; either way, I've chosen to enjoy the ride. Let's try it together and see what happens.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Football, Dancing, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

To be honest, I am not a fan of having pets in big cities in general. I love animals, and I believe they should be free to have their own yard, not be on a leash that chokes them, and be as close to their natural habitat and practices as possible.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Cancer
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Film is a big diversion, esp. foreign films and American classics. TED Conference videos, theatre, performance, art exhibits, museums (Many I have not explored in NYC). I am also reviving certain activities that I used to do like camping and dancing!

Favorite hot spots:

They're almost all south of 14th St in Manhattan (Newyorican Poets Café, Café Angelique) but because I'm familiar with a few neighborhoods in Brooklyn, Queens, and Hudson Co, NJ, there are some hot spots there as well. I'll be happy to fill you in.

Favorite things:

Lots of R sounds: Writing, Running, Relaxing, Romance. I also have a few hobbies that I am interested in, but that I haven't started yet, like becoming a private pilot and archery. I like great films and great art, which are like religion to me.

Last read:

It was an article in NY Times Magazine about parents of transgendered children and how they embrace (and limit) their children's freedom to express themselves in a world that has not fully accepted the children for who they are. Very interesting.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Dark brown
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Occasionally
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
No preference

I work in the performing arts (I usually have many projects going at once--music, theatre, film), and I am an adjunct professor at a few colleges in NJ. I teach in Foreign Languages and Communications.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander

I am half Chilean, half American. Both sides are mixed with European and Native American ancenstry. I grew up in the Southern U.S. and Europe. Army kid.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I have studied many faiths. I grew up with Christianity, so it is the one with which I am most familiar. Lately, I have become more attracted to the Eastern philosophies such as Buddhism, because it speaks to me in a refreshing way.

Languages:
Arabic, English, French, German, Spanish, Other
Spanish
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

I am interested in languages, so I have a studied a few. I am fluent in Spanish. My degrees are in the arts, which have been perfect for me to gain insight into the human condition.

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