It seems strange to try and sum up who I am in just a few sentences, but here we go...
Most people consider me to be very smart, giving, motivated, and down to earth. Personally I think I'm sort of complicated, a hopeless romantic, and a self aware. I come from a crazy past filled with many life lessons, personal loss, and many wonderful diverse experiences.... So if you are narrow minded in your view of life, we will most likely not click on a meaningful level. People who are racist, judgmental, and without original thought tend to annoy me a lot. I'm not saying that I'm an idealist and/or very opinionated, I'm just a realist who finds peace of mind dealing with the true world and not dogmatic perception that most people project it to be.
For fun I enjoy many things. I got all of the crazy partying out of me a long time ago, so now I enjoy quieter times. I worked in fine dining since my first job. I've done everything from being a waiter, manager, sommelier, and wine director. Because of this history, I love food and wine!! Going out to the top restaurants in this city is a great way to spend the evening. Also checking out local wine bars! If all else fails, well, I'm a pretty good cook myself. So a nice night at home in the kitchen with some good vino and great company always sounds good to me. Hitting the gym when I can fit it in, going hiking, playing golf, or anything else that involves forgetting about work and de-stressing is a great way to spend an off day.
Speaking about work... There is something that I need to bring up, lol. I'm not just a restaurant worker. My career is being a dietitian. I've been working in that field for about 7 years now. Even though I do work at a restaurant one or two days a week... and I do have diet clients that I still work with... the job that takes up 90% of my work day is my business that I own and operate. It's my primary job that I'm involved in. I rather not go into detail about it on here (but I will be more than happy to discuss it if we start up a conversation), but it is in the adult industry (and no, I'm not a porn star). I bring this up because even though most people think my job is awesome, some people disagree with it due to personal beliefs. So if this is a problem for you, then please understand this is something that is currently a part of my life and it will not change anytime soon.
For a partner in crime I would love to find someone who has a huge heart and a positive outlook on life... regardless of how bad things get. I love people who are willing to fight and do whatever it takes to make their dreams come true and to hold on to the people they love the most. Even though it's hard to find people that are not afraid to TRULY open up to others, I still believe that I will find that person someday. I am very open and honest, and I expect the same from anyone I have a relationship with. Keeping secrets and lying drive me crazy. So if you are confident, honest, and have a big heart, then we really need to talk. I love kids and want to settle down and finally start a family of my own one day... hopefully sooner than later.