I consider myself to be a very nice person. I would say that my biggest fault is that I am very shy. My shyness tends to be a little off-putting. I am not arrogant but I would understand how that could be perceived by people mistaking my shyness for that. My other fault is that I like to take on more than I can handle. It is not as though I will ultimately fail at something, it's just that I'll take my time to finish each project to make sure that each is done to perfection. I'm looking for someone that does not need to be the center of attention. I would like her to be confident but definitely not in a cocky way. I am also very turned off by egotistical people. I consider us all to be equal and would like someone who shares that view. I have other viewpoints that I would love to share if you are interested.