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39 year old man
Long Island City, New York, United States

Seeking:
women 30-39
Within:
10 Miles of New York, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Read this first paragraph before moving on: So, I've been on this site way longer than anyone should be and have decided to refocus my life elsewhere. Here are some words of wisdom to the women out there (in no particular order.)

1. If a guy doesn't text you within two days of the first date, he's not interested and the odds (98%) are fairly good that he never will be. Regardless of the excuse he uses and how charming he is the night that you meet him, he's just not into you.
2. The guy you meet is a lot more sensitive than you think he is. The guy who scoffs at this is the most sensitive.
3. Don't ever tell a guy that you are seeing someone else. Regardless of how insignificant it may be, our imaginations are active and in order to protect ourselves we will walk or at least have one foot out of the door.
4. We (guys) often lie to ourselves about what we want, who we want, and why we want it and don't even know that we are doing it. So I change the word lie to say that we have lack of clarity. We don't intend on hurting others (most, but not all) but we are just as lost and scared as you. We often feel that we can't share that with you because, you the "woman" want a "strong man." My father is the strongest, best man I have ever met and the person he is most honest with is my mother. Now that's a man! Many of us feel that you don't even know who men are. We were boys first and often times that doesn't leave us. That kid is still there. That irrational kid who still wants to pull on your pony-tail. Give us time to know that we can trust you. Do it by remembering what we talked about on our date. Do it by asking about our pets when we grew up. Remember the dog/cat/turtles name. If you want loyalty from a guy do that. If anyone remembers the name of my first dog on a date, you've already got a piece of my heart.
5. Sometimes you are the first date of many within a day and sometimes you are the only person on our mind. There is very little way to tell the difference. If you are on a date and you let the thought of "is he screwing with me" into your head, he will take note that at the very least something is wrong and think about walking.
6. If you are honestly interested in meeting a person for a relationship meet during the day for the first two dates. Lights show flaws. They are not flaws when you meet for the first time in the light. Flaws are when unrealistic expectations meet reality. These flaws are part of who the person is and are generally appreciated or ignored if seen at the initial two meetings. So keep it in the light.
7. If a guy says something wrong on a date, say something once. If he looks sincerely bothered by the fact that he screwed up, leave it alone. He is beating himself up over it inside.
8. If you love something and he doesn't, don't talk about it incessantly. There will be time for that but at the beginning just move the conversation on. We put on smiles just like you and we get bored just as easily as you.
9. If he seems to be good to be true...he probably is. If he is good looking (7 or better) you are probably one of many and he is filtering it down.
10. We want there to be a fairly tale also but we will never say it. And the script to our fairy tale has sex scenes!
11. We are a lot more like you than you would think.
12. If you are self conscious about something and we tell you we don't care...we don't, so stop talking about it. If a guy brings it up again, in a negative light, he's not truly interested in you.
13. If you are not interested immediately, don't look completely bored. Still listen, otherwise it is insulting. After a half hour just say...thank you very much but I really should get going. Offer a handshake at the end..most guys know what that means.
14. Some guys are nuts!...so are some women. That's life.
15. I hope this helps. If you want to ask me a question...ask and I'll answer until my membership ends.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Bowling, Cycling, Inline skating, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Had dogs as a kid and would love to have another one, but I don't feel that I have enough time right now.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Trying new restaurants, Swimming, Volleyball, The Movies, Working Out, the occasional show, Bowling, and going for a run.

Favorite hot spots:

Any beach, Downtown, my couch after a long day, Florence, Mom and Dad's.

Favorite things:

Pizza, Asian Nachos, snow in the winter, sun in the summer, my nieces and nephew.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
I'll tell you later
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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