I used to have all kinds of criteria that I thought mattered. Then I realized that there's only one thing that truly matters in a partner. Does she make me happy?
That's not to say that there aren't things that are important to me.. Can I have a meaningful conversation with you? Do you have goals and dreams that you're willing to work for? Do you treat people, friends as well as strangers, well?
As for myself, I tend to be very laid back and I often find myself playing peacemaker between some of my more volatile friends and acquaintances. I'm a bit of a geek.. though I don't show it much to people I don't know well. So don't be too surprised if/when my idiosyncratic side shows through