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37 year old man
Saint Paul, Minnesota, United States

Seeking:
women 28-33
Within:
50 Miles of Saint Paul, Minnesota, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I sleep in St. Paul but live in Minneapolis. Eating at Masu, walking around Lake of the Isle, talking about an Intelligence Squared Debate, goofing on life, & admiring each other is a good day. I totally have undiagnosed ADHD, undiagnosed aixelsyd, attention deficit disorder & a laundry list of other dysfunctions including no rhythm while DANCING. I'm a mixture of single mindedness, aloofness, charisma, social ineptness & confidence. I'm physically strong but a cry baby when hurt. I'm snobbish but I don't have fun at another's expense. With the right person any day can be special. Even a Tuesday! I'm that amalgamation of opposing ideals, conflicting thoughts & hypocrisy in action. I'm human & a realist.

I'm currently pursuing a master's degree in public safety administration which can be tasking. My friends say I'm sarcastic, authentic, but a nerd in a bully's body. I don't have tattoos just scars. Yep, I'm a black nerd; it's a thing, Google it.

I'm looking for a girlfriend that is my partner in life. I'm not a details person. I see the uniqueness in people. I'm decisive & egocentric. I delight in not being a part of the norm. I'm passionate and prideful. Being well rounded is a goal of mine that I have not reached but it's a challenge. I like challenges except for in relationships. Relationships should be easy & comfortable like home on Sunday morning. The rough patches should be followed up by the rekindling of passion, learning, growth, & extraordinary make up
I like to laugh not fight. But I'm quick to call BS & I'd want someone to call me on my BS too. I'd like a woman to be strong enough to lead & strong enough to be led. In return I'll be your sword & shield. I'm looking for someone to put up with my idiosyncrasies & vice versa. Hanging out enjoying a good meal & a mixed drink with great company is ideal.

I'm an introspective person. I don't like everything about myself but I like Me. I want a woman who knows herself well both the good & the bad. My ideal woman is self-assured & knows that conversations aren't arguments or challenges to independence. There is no perfect person. But the someone I'm looking for has experienced life & is better for it. She hasn't been wholly jaded by setbacks. A woman who is self-confident and not arrogant is really attractive. Lastly, funny, smart, & confident is really desirable!

I'm really looking for a partner in crime. Being "interesting" without being obnoxious, pushy, or controlling are appealing attributes for my partner. Someone who can tactfully tell me when I'm being a "douche" is a must. I want to be attracted completely to the woman I'm sharing my life with.

I'm pretty midwestern but like to eat well & like getting dressed up. I like to have fun & do novel things. Paddle boarding, scuba diving, snorkeling, camping, hiking, checking out new restaurants, traveling to interesting places, I'm all in.

I'm not broken & I don't need to be fixed. We're all here because the social scene in the Metro is lousy, whatever we're doing isn't working & some of you gals are just crazy ;~) In the end, I want to be happy sharing & developing my life with the one I love. Cowards need to apply.

Likes: MIA, sincerity, mutual attraction, truly being yourself, Italian aesthetics, accents, kindness, sidecars (the drink), charisma, humility, sharing stories, well communicated good ideas, sympathy, a sense of humor, kissing, bonfires, & tact (I'm not that tactful).

Dislikes: know-it-alls, "sass", crudeness, a victim's mentality, superficiality, wannabes, pedestrian approaches to life, the inflexible, 90's music & bad smells.

Chemistry is huge for me because I have to like you. Oh, I really want to have kids. Winks are okay, emails are good, phone conversations are better, meeting is the best. But endless emails are lame.

Now you know

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Martial arts, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
Louisiana Tech University, Ruston, LA
For fun:

Ju Jitsu has been great in helping keep that fire of competition and feeling of camaraderie alive in me. Finding a "new" move is sweet especially when it works. That's a piece of bliss for me.

Favorite hot spots:

I like to dine where ever there is well prepared and tasty food and a laid back atmosphere in the cities. The Lyn Lake area is a no brainer. I could live at Muddy Waters. But my heart is with the St Paul lowbrow eateries.

Favorite things:

Lana Del Rey has my ear now. Her voice is haunting and her lyrics have that heir of east coast cool and California crass. Citizen Cope is the man. I like how he blends city beats with his country drawl.
And then there's Southwire my new love.

Last read:

I'm a magazine reader. The Atlantic is a really insightful mag I like.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
4'8" (142cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Salt and pepper, Silver, Grey, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Law enforcement / Security / Military
Administrative / Secretarial, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Architecture / Interior design

I consider not falling accidentally and keeping myself from saying exactly what's on my mind a full time job. My profession just keeps me clothed and fed.

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree

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