As the great sage Popeye said: "I yam what I yam." I've gotten to the point where I'm more into experiencing my life instead of defining it.
I like my women the way I like my coffee ~ cold and bitter. Kidding, actually, I'd like to find a woman who cares enough about herself to appreciate that someone else does too. Someone who is up for adventure but can take the occasional misadventure in stride. I find intelligent, headstrong women with unique personalities to be very appealing. If I wrote you that means I think you have those qualities, so you may take that as a compliment.