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Asian lesbian with bipolar disorder and boring hair. No question of what's behind door number anything. Let's take a walk in the park.

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39 year old woman
Long Island City, New York, United States

Seeking:
women 27-42
Within:
50 Miles of Astoria, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
Faith:
Atheist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

My name is Lisa.

Odd that that's not part of the questionnaire. (I often go by Lisa K. because the last name's a little unwieldy.)

My interests:

Standing really close to the peephole... embracing my MYnority identities... giving in to dust... seeking my "bee charmer"... ebbing because everyone’s flowing... answering rhetorical questions... bemoaning the fact that when you spin the color wheel really fast, you see white... writing on unlined paper... mocking normal people... insisting that "procrastinating" and "prolonging life" have the same Latin root... talking with my hands and face and body... reaching out because I don’t want anyone, anywhere, anymore, to feel: "I am the only one"... being interested in anyone who recognizes my user name… not minding that my boss calls me her hamster... wishing that when God goes on vacation, he’d leave an outgoing message with the number of someone covering his desk... vibrating at a different frequency... filing things under "X"... watching the Mariska Hargitay Hour... accepting my limitations and not singing even in the shower... writing "Walking Backward, So You See My Face" (poetry book)… believing that seeing people in black and white is only okay in photographs... "dancing about architecture"... telling "the truth about Jane"... advocating for the interrupted girl... being one of the L words... refusing to wear makeup, so you’re not shocked by my face when we wake up... deciding 13 is my favorite number just to be ornery... holding everyone’s bags when they go on the roller coaster (someone has to!)... chopping onions the wrong way... pulling the plank out of my own eye first... burning the 5 AM oil... considering learning to climb coconut trees just to be able to answer "yes" when asked... forgetting that the edamame’s boiling on the stove... recycling even toilet paper rolls, but providing intervention for those who pick from other people’s trash cans (you know who you are)... running with foxes... keeping "boys on the side"... learning that capitalizing The first word of each line/Doesn’t make it a poem... forgetting again that the edamame’s boiling on the stove... judging those who judge... earning toaster ovens... not automatically joining a standing ovation just 'cause everyone’s rising... living “Inception”... wondering if Kurt Cobain actually found Nirvana by stopping the agony... writing the next Gay Female Bipolar Asian memoir... knowing that Angelina Jolie’s work on behalf of the persecuted started way back in '96 with a movie called "Foxfire"... identifying with the Slinky, not the ruler... smelling my cats’ heads... insisting that coffee IS a food group... being quirkyalone… relying on angels in America... accepting invites to disco pool parties (Whoopi Goldberg reference)… inquiring if it matters that I'M the one who filled the glass half full/empty... sucking at math... pointing out privilege... throwing stones at glass houses... warning that, because religious right-wingers don’t believe in abortion, there’s a hell of a huge next generation of haters headed our way... "staying gold"... "missing Saturn"... thudding for Mary-Louise Parker... remembering my Brokeback cowboy... wondering what van Gogh’s paintings would look like if he wasn’t touched with madness... tipping taxi drivers well... and wondering if it's too late to ask if this parachute was made in China.

The person I'm looking for:

You, who read through this whole thing. You want an indoor or outdoor wedding?

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

One cat is fat and needs to know everything about everything. The other is bitchy, but pretty. They are my comedy central, my anti-depressants, and the reason I think the inventor of the Swiffer deserves to be a multi-millionaire.

Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
New York University, New York, NY
For fun:

The simple things: sit around with friends, diner, coffee shop, park, Broadway show, breakfast after midnight. Talk to the cats, fold towels, alphabetize. As you can see, things get pretty wild. Bring a helmet.

Favorite hot spots:

I'm about to say diner. That could say a lot about what you'd like, or a lot about what you wouldn't like about me. Diner. Bowling alley. Oh, now I really have you going-- but in what direction?

Hawaii, Seattle, Cleveland, Italy. (Better.)

Favorite things:

Italian food and Pez. The color blue, green soap. Sarah McLachlan, Alice Ripley. People who do NOT know who Alice Ripley is. Poetry, photography, caps, movies, TV, Broadway, softball.

Last read:

Possible Side Effects by Augusten Burroughs

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
4'5" (134cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, Big and beautiful, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured, Heavyset, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Education / Teacher / Professor, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist

Writer/poet/artist by day. Personal assistant by night (Broadway/music industry).

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander

Japanese-American

Faith:
Atheist
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other

aspiring Buddhist

Languages:
English, Other
English, Other
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Bachelors degree

Graduation from a 2-year program that one day will be a Master's program.

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