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33 year old man
Newark, New Jersey, United States

Seeking:
women 30-36
Within:
20 Miles of Newark, New Jersey, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I don’t think you can know who a person is by analyzing usernames and emails or looking at pictures (though some pictures can be more off-putting than others). I also don’t think that sharing common interests, experiences, backgrounds, jobs, etc. will lead to relationship "success". I could attempt to describe myself. But I’m pretty sure my perception of me will be quite different from your perception of me (actually, I’m 100% sure about that). I could look at and be impressed by your profile but I hope that you would not be able to sum yourself up in three or four paragraphs and a handful of pictures. Getting to know one another just takes time and effort.

So let’s go back to the original question, hunter or farmer? A hunter is one who finds what he/she wants. A farmer is one who grows it. I don’t think there is a right “dating philosophy” (if there was one I certainly don’t know it). I’m sure there is equal satisfaction in finding what one has been searching for versus growing it. The question then becomes, what is that person left with after all those efforts? The result of the hunter's effort over time nevers resembles what was hunted, while the result of the farmer's effort is stronger and more vialble than the seed it once was. The person you meet on day one will never be exactly the same person you see days, months, years later (inside and/or outside). But the relationship you grow can be stronger and more viable. And I put it to you that we can have the long lasting, fulfilling relationship we are both looking for by growing it from the ground up and not by hunting for it using imperfect tools in imperfect forums with incomplete information with unrealistic expectations. This long lasting, fulfilling relationship will take time, patience, hard work, TLC, an open mind, dedication, and true commitment.

The point I’ve tried to make (in my Dr. Phil-esque, metaphor-heavy, monologue) is that I am interested in growing that “special something”. If you’re interested in doing the same, then please email me. Though not every "seed" is worth sowing, I’m extremely open to meeting all types of people. So, how do you feel about growing something special with me? I look forward to hearing from you!

ps. I really would like to hear from you. Send me an email. No winks please.....

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Football, Golf, Martial arts, Running, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I don't have any pets, but I like dogs.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Leo
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I'm up for almost anything... almost...

Favorite hot spots:

Las Vegas, New Orleans, pretty much anywhere that is not a train...

Favorite things:

Big Love, Alaska State Troopers, Cops, Friday Night Lights, Man v. Food, Steak Paradise, Primal Grill, people watching, and anything that involves being outside when the weather is nice.

Last read:

I just look at the pictures...

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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