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37 year old man
Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Seeking:
women 27-45
Within:
99 Miles of Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Rather than list my hobbies..I am going to go the op. ed route. If you know what that is, we are off to a fantastic start.

Is it just me, or do you find it interesting that in an era where we can meet more people than ever imagined, more people are single, than ever before? I am single because I am ugly, and politically incorrect, but for the countless beautiful people who are so 'easy-going, athletic, and loyal..yet cannot find 'love'....I have an idea why. You sign up for this service, and begin the search. A woman sees the profile of a man who emailed her, and he has written everything you want to read, so you get excited. Your thirty-seven selfies in clubs and at 'events'..if you are African American..or various outdoorsy activities if Caucasian worked! So you go to the salon to get that weave tightened up..if you are Caucasian, you get that spray tan poppin'. You are off to meet. You walk up to the chosen venue, praying to the ever-popular-in-the-South Jesus Christ (I am from Los Angeles) that your date is not twenty pounds heavier than the pictures. They look like their pictures, so you sit. Talk. Things are going so well. A connection. Everything the man says is so flawlessly in sync with what you want. I mean, you conveniently forget you gave him all the answers to the test, by listing EXACTLY what you want in a man, so he says exactly those things, but you don't think of that. You have a wonderful night. He texts you what a great time he had, on the way home. You meet again. Repeat. He recites the second paragraph of your profile this time, increasing the level of connection you feel, which is really just his ability to recall what you said you wanted and pretend to be that. This cycle continues for as long as your programmed date-count until sex, and this is when the tide changes. The texts start to diminish. The calls lessen. He gets "busy" with work. Maybe a family issue. He lost his dog, and his mom needs him to come over to mow the lawn. You thought this could be the one. He was so 'different'. You both worship the UGA bulldogs, for Christ's sake! You have several dates a week, in your most ravishing ensembles, and it always ends like this, or you would not be paying for 13 different sites like this. You are lovely, have a Masters degree, workout six times a week, have a great job, are willing to get 'dirty'/go camping if you are Caucasian, and put up with sagging jeans and gangsta rap playing in the car, at forty, if you are African American. You are the perfect catch. When you chase your dreams, or goals, you accept the reality of what it requires. Try different things. In dating, you don't. You write long lists of rules and must-haves that sound like nagging mom's, not captivating women, but men never tell you, because all they want is what a fast-food drive through like these sites bring, so it really doesn't matter what you write. Marriage happens to most men by accident. They happen upon a woman that captivates them and bam..next thing they know, kids and white picket fence. Most men do not plan it, so they don't join a site like this looking for the one, but the one for this weekend. I joined this site because when I moved to the South, culture-shock set in and I was looking to increase the chances of meeting a free-thinking champion of a woman, but what I have learned is 'tell them what they want to hear...and don't challenge them, like a man should, and you will 'clean up'. Well, I don't want to 'clean-up', or I would be writing how much I enjoy artistic expression, travel, and fine-dining. I would post my FICO score. I actually wish to connect. It is the point of living. I have met forty year olds who take selfies in elevators and public bathrooms, and hang-out more than 25 year olds. This profile is to scare them off. "Girls" hate to be challenged by a man; they want to be lied to. I want a Woman.

Now go get ready for date 3 of the week. He's reading over his notes, and about to head your way!

Interests:
Business networking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Everything is fun with the right person.

Favorite hot spots:

Two Urban Licks. The High. Chastain. Book stores. Beaches. I miss the Beach. Lake Lanier is not a beach people!

Favorite things:

Learning. Cirque de Soleil. Silence. Noise. Smart women.

Last read:

The Secret. Conversations with God. A New Earth. The Alchemist. The Four Agreements. The Five People You Meet in Heaven.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Bald
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

Rock Star.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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