I want to be totally honest to weed out the people who will likely not be a good match for me. I'm an accomplished, ambitious, smart and independent woman. I'm looking for my equal in a partner. I'm a hopeless romantic and believe in true love. I'm looking for someone who is happy on their own but wants someone to share their adventures with. I don't want to settle and I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person because I genuinely enjoy being alone. I have a great group of friends, great career and plenty of interests/hobbies to fill my time. I usually feel like there are not enough hours in each day to see all the people I want to see and do all the things I want to do. I'm not interested in the guy who is just looking to have fun or is online to meet as many women as possible. If you're 25, you're likely too young for me and we're not in the same place in our lives. If you're 45 and look like you're 60, I doubt we'll have chemistry. If you spend more time doing your hair than me, we're probably not the ideal match. While I'm very tolerant of divergent viewpoints, if you are ultra conservative, I doubt we'll hit it off.
I take good care of myself, love eating healthy, getting outdoors, kickboxing and staying in shape. My biggest turn offs are judgmental people and people who are arrogant, materialistic and ego-driven. I don't care what you do for work, what car you drive or how much money you make, but if your favorite thing to do is sit on the couch and drink beer while watching reality TV, we are probably not a good match. My biggest turn ons are men who are smart, ambitious, funny, compassionate, empathetic and genuinely care about other people. It's nice if someone knows how to have fun, act silly and doesn't take themselves too seriously. I could spend hours people watching or just wandering around outdoors enjoying the sights and sounds. I want someone who inspires me, moves me, teaches me and makes me feel happy and secure when we're together. I want a man who is looking for a serious relationship but isn't trying to force it to happen.
