True love is not the helpless desire to possess the cherished object of one's fervent affection; true love is the disciplined generosity we require of ourselves for the sake of another when we would rather be selfish. -Stephen Carter
I'm looking for a woman who loves life and is seeking to find a man with whom she can share her life. I'm interested in exploring my life and adding to yours. I can be a romantic, but I can also be your typical male, lol. When we're together I will give you my attention and we can talk about anything. And when we're apart, I want us both to anticipate being together once more. I want to hold your hand and open doors for you. I want to make you feel special, but I'll need your help in learning all the ways you enjoy being pampered. I may not be the wealthiest man, but I will spoil you with my attention, love, understanding and humor if you allow me to. I believe in having personal time apart, because I am comfortable with myself, but it also allows us to continue sharing our experiences together...because we're not always having them together, lol.
I want a partner who is as beautiful inside as out, because I want to admire her when she walks in the room and know that her heart is as big as her....well, anyway, LOL. I want to fantasize about her when she's not there and I want to admire her personality and strength. She needs to be open with herself and about herself, and I will do the same. She must be comfortable or wish to be comfortable with her sexuality because I feel that it is not something to keep hidden from one another. We must enjoy sharing all that matters to us. Just like all those great qualities of honesty, integrity, loyalty, compassion, courage, ambition are important to a relationship, so I also feel sexual compatibility is as essential as the chemistry that makes you anticipate the former. DO NOT misconstrue these statements to believe that I would pursue sexuality with a singular purpose. I seek a woman to share all of myself with and I am comfortable knowing that I am a sexual being as well as spiritual one. I simply believe that discussions on all things are important and apart of our common conversation. I am a Christian man and being as we will take our time in getting to know one another, I do expect that we will attempt to learn about all aspects of one another. That being said, here is a sampling of something I've written:
WHAT I CAN'T SAY
I want to call you beautiful!
But that word is just a word without power,
It is a song without voice,
For though the truth is spoken,
The tone, the range, the pitch are lacking
And all that lends that inner meaning is missing.
For the word is far too simplistic
It doesn't have the complexity that I see in you,
Would it be that I name thee stunning,
But despite the dazzling imagery that comes to mind
It is the musing of a man both dumb and blind.
One who cannot recognize that pure radiance
That I see in the depths of your being.
The strength that I find in the pools of your eyes
The brilliance that emanates outward from your smile.
It cannot encapsulate the sensual fire
That burns on the creamy expanse that is your skin.
This flame carries both promise and danger.
For to have you is to risk losing you,
And to lose you risks despair.
There is no fear in my heart or worry on my mind
Because I can only grow stronger and shine.
I can see you in my thoughts
And racing through my mind,
Intermingled with my desires
And overflowing in my soul.
I wish only to compliment your spirit,
And become one part of a whole.
I wish to share my knowledge of all things with a woman and hope that she will do the same and we'll each learn more together than apart. If you want to know more, then I look forward to hearing from you. I am a genuine man and will make a genuine friend. Nothing is lost when facing life with an open mind.