I want a guy that is funny, smart, motivated, secure, self-aware, and easy to be around. I am attracted to men taller and with a larger build than me. I like masculine men that are not afraid of queening out sometimes. I want a guy that is an optimist and has some type of spiritual life even if it is not the same as mine. I hope to find a guy that is comfortable being alone but is ready to find someone to share his life.