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31 year old man
Aloma, Florida, United States

Seeking:
women 18-34
Within:
50 Miles of Winter Park, Florida, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, Other
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

This thing is kinda long because I've added to it over time. Normally I am slow to open up but that is the whole point of a dating website right? I know I'm a genuine good caring guy who wants someone honest and unique, someone to care about me and to be cared about by me because we are happy to have found someone special. If you aren't with someone who makes you smile when you think of them then it's probably not the person you deserve to have or deserves you.

Random Fact: Dogs, Cats, and Kids get me every time. I'm a complete sucker for them. *Smile*

I like to joke around and have the most fun with people who don't need to always be serious. I am sarcastic, laugh at the wrong things, interested in everything, obsessed with nothing.

A person is a monument to creation and a whole world of their own. I like persons more than people which just means that I have fun in groups but am really most engaged with a single person on a one to one level. There has been a lot of change since I first made a half way serious profile here. I am a man with 30 years of life experience starting over without preconceptions. Before I was much more open to just anyone but I've learned that people should show an interest in wanting to get to know you and be known to you before you open your heart. Still, this is a place where we've come to find someone who they can be themselves with so I'm willing to take a risk and let you get to know me honestly. I was a big romantic and an idealist when I was young man. So I will leave this small glimpse of what I wrote for my profile when I was as a younger guy. Hopefully you'll understand that I'm being open because I am looking for a special someone and, I hope, so are you.
*rare peek*
" I have loved and guard myself from falling. I know enough to know I'm helpless when loved."

Now I am strong enough to still have a big heart and am more careful with who I share it with. I am no longer helpless when I'm loved. I can care back or know when it's not something healthy for us. It is easy to be jaded and cold, which I was for a time, but I learned that comes from fear not strength. It takes far more to be able to care and allow someone to care about you.
WARNING!!
Recently someone has shown me that someone may believe differently. As long as they are open to see what it's about and ok with what I personally believe then I can give it a chance. It isn't about me judging, I promise you that and I wish I could show it. It doesn't matter to me what other people believe or think and I do hate HATE people who use Jesus/The Bible/God to judge/condemn/discriminate/ie to use it hatefully instead of the Whole Reason for my faith which is to love others. Hopefully anyone reading this will understand.
Sharing this is not easy because I know from experience some will take it the wrong way and it will stop me from meeting some great women but it is important enough to be upfront; to show I'm serious about being honest. It's a chance at something real.
I'm a person whose most important relationship is loving Jesus Christ and I am looking for a woman who is just as in love with him as I am. It's not cool or really in fashion to be His. The matter is that I know I'm not perfect and I know, intuitively, that a relationship that will last as long as I hope to have has to be based on Jesus being more important to you and I am; more important to me than you and to you more than me. If you are scared away then it's better now than later. Still, if I'm amazingly blessed enough to find someone who feels the same then I can promise you this. We have a chance at something, at a love, healthy and special enough to make everything rough it took to get here into a blessing for having shown us how to be in love for the last time. The time we get it right.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have a Maltese named Happy. He was a gift to my mom but he loves me more *smile*. He likes to climb all over me and is trained to bark when I whisper 'who's that'. Really won me over in spite of being a little dog.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Taurus
College:
Valencia Community College, Orlando, FL
For fun:

Talking with people I don't know, playing social games, going to any concert with friends, and read a book past midnight. I also like walking in the dark during a full moon. I like being ..me. :)

Favorite hot spots:

I travel from Texas to Florida many times a year. I'm always looking for new places to have fun. My friends are my travel destinations. It's all about who you're with but concerts and festivals are a continuing theme.

Favorite things:

I love reading and the tactile feel of books. Finding subjects I never knew existed and learning different view can be like suddenly life has changed with an entirely new viewpoint. Above all Family and Friends are my favorite things.

Last read:

'Stranger in a Strange Land' by Robert A. Heinlein. I'm reading a few now including 'The 2,548 Best Things Anybody Ever Said' by Robert Byrne.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'6" (137cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Black
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
Occasionally, Daily, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

Independent income.

Income:
I'll tell you later
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, Other
East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian, Other

I am Caribbean born son of an U.S. Air Force Captain, so I grew up in the States mostly and a bit in Central America My family came from the tropical mountain farming culture and missionary work. I hold the values of my family and my faith close.

Faith:
Christian / Other
Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

My most compatible matches will be close to me in where we place our hearts. It make me..a bit sad that some won't look deeper to see what I mean as I say I'm a Christian but uniquely. I hope for an open minded person to share their own beliefs with

Languages:
English, Spanish
English
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I am continuing my education and would like to receive a formal diploma someday but I will forever be a student learning something, especially working. I value education for the sake of it's use but not as a mere formality or status symbol.

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