Hi! I am looking to meet a guy who is sweet but brave, gentle but confident...Looks aren't important but your heart and mind are. I am attracted to men who can hold their own in a conversation and who make an effort to actually converse with the person in front of them, asking questions and listening. I am also attracted to wit and intelligence, not necessarily molecular physics, but, haha, I like a guy who knows something about something. It shows passion, which, I find to be a good thing. I would love to find a man who has a little time to do fun things, like going out to dinner, movies, shows, group gatherings, wineries, weekend roadtrips, fairs, festivals, just things like that. I also enjoy kayaking in the summer and walks in the woods and along rivers and streams looking for rocks and fossils. I have lots of friends from all different walks of life and finding a guy who is accepting of all my different friends is quite important to me. I am also a single mom to two teenage boys who live with me all of the time so I can't always do things at the drop of a dime and sometimes my plans change, so I am looking for a man who is understanding of this. I am not critical of what a man does for a living, as long as he does something and takes care of himself and his family. I also don't mind what a man looks like, if he's super slender or is sporting a rootbeer belly as long as he's nice to me and my friends and family and makes me feel special because I understand that "beauty is only skin deep" and what I am looking for is so much deeper. I am not a Christian nor any other organized religion...I don't mind what your beliefs are as long as you don't try to impart them on me. I like to get out with my friends now and then and I have been known to drink and smoke a few cigs while I'm out. I'm very easy going and friendly and look forward to meeting you!