I'm not one of those "my friend talked me into this" type of guy; I think it’s a much better option to actively search for the right person rather than sit around hoping to randomly run into them at a local bar or lounge..and hopefully the bad dates will make great stories ;-)
I am a business professional working in NYC/ north NJ and living in Hoboken. I am open-minded and funny. I love making people laugh and putting a smile on their face…I am consistently told I bring positive energy to an environment; I am out-going, like meeting new people, and learning new things. I listen to music a lot and am open to all genres.
I definitely live by the motto of “work hard, play hard”. I am the oldest of four siblings (so am looked up to a lot) and have been independent / on my own since I was 17...not much has been handed to me by others. I am a hard-worker and possess a strong sense of determination. I am very appreciative of all I have achieved and continue to look to grow and mature with each chapter in my life. On the contrary, I do think it is important to invest in relationships that are important in your life…family, friends, etc. I have been realizing this as I have becoming older.
I would like to meet someone who knows what they want and open to the reality of meeting someone they may have a true connection with….be grounded, confident yet humble, open-minded, and have a sense of humor (love to laugh)….communication is important to me (being passive aggressive does not get you far with me).