I am looking for a patient man. I say patient because I am very shy and a bit standoffish when it comes to meeting that person for the first time. I want to get to know you first. I am sick of guys wanting to meet and within the first few minutes want to get in my pants. It don't work like that. I take things slow. Go on a few dates, talk about ourselves to one another and see if we are compatible. Once we actually have chemistry then we become closer. I want to be safe and comfortable with someone.