I hope to meet someone that is confident enough to understand that my wanting more from myself would only secure our future. I'm looking for a friend first and far most and we can build from there. Someone who's not afriad to tell me the truth even if it hurts but in turn can handle the truth as well. My ideal mate has to know when to compermise and when to stand their ground. Honesty is not a choice it's a must. He must know that we are in this together. I'm a very intellectual person who loves to explore new things and stimulating my intellect is the key to keeping my attention. Being open to any and all things at least once is a plus. I'm a kid at heart and loves to laugh, have fun and can be a bit goofy at times; I would like to get to know some one that can let loose. Bottom line is getting to know me will be an adventure and loving me would be inevitable. Building a solid relationship is an important quailty. Loyalty is what I give; betryal is not an option. Drama is a catagory I choose in movies not something i want to live. I love to cook and do anything that enhances who I am. I can transition from the boardroom, to a black tie event, then to a tailgate party and remain a class act. I would like to find my friend, my lover life partner. I'm at a point were I want it all; someone to laugh with, to listen to, someone who knows when and how to listen, someone to discover new things with and teach me the things they know. Somone that will love me for all of who I am; the total woman not picking and choosing the parts they like. For once I want to know what it feels to be loved in return. Who I am can not be placed in to words you will have to take the chance and see if we mesh well together. I'm not on this site to date multiple men. No I'm hoping to find that special person. I do perfer phone conversation then a face to face meeting; texting doesn't work for me and besides to so impersonal. I'm not attracted to overweight men, "I don't do human teddy bears not being shallow but everyone knows what they are looking for"; and yes looks are a total plus but I'm more interested in the total person. If you're interested please by all means reach out and when I say reach out I'm referring by way of words not winks.. and we can see what happens You took a chance on internet dating now lets see if you can really go through with it.