i love to laugh, i need someone extremely understanding and caring, and if u can make me laugh your almost golden! I think that someone i could bring home to my mom and my family for a nice sunday italian dinner? thats a home run right there! and uh HONESTY, i dont even know why i should have to mention it ...i think that i have a somewhat traditional italian mentality of , " Family, Loyalty, Respect, Honesty, & Pride are essentials. " --- and i just feel as though i need to find a guy with drive, ambition, determination for success...cause i need that inspiration to give me some of my confidence back and i believe that being with a guy who obtains those qualities would really help ME reach for them EVEN HARDER! Almost like a little dynamic duo kind of couple! I am sick of the so called ''dates'' at dunkin donuts or driving aimlessly as we talk...Dont get me wrong though, i AM a frequent flyer when it comes to the coffee drinking, NOT a frequent flyer when it comes to walking around with no end destination, However, i wouldnt mind meeting a guy for the first time at a local coffee shop just to talk a little more face to face and get to know some more about each other, i also wouldnt mind taking a walk together to get an ice cream or a slush etc... i dont mind those things at all i just think that should be a date ONLY in the case of a new couple not knowing much about each other and seeking to know more, but after meeting and figuring out if we were compatible and wanted to go out with one another again, I think that I would prefer my guy/date to be a little bit more of a gentlemen, and a tad bit more aware of what a REAL DATE contains... movies are good, music is good, taking a walk locally OR elsewhere, that would tease a lot of laughs and past stories out of one another..going to a cool nightclub & dancing would rank up in my favorites!! Yes I can be quite the ''girly girl'' but I also like cuddling up in my PJ's with my guy, and playing video games and order a pizza!! Im not too keen on the sports/exercise, FOR ME, NOT MY GUY!! HE CAN DO THIS ALL HE WANTS!!!