Thought I found love but all I found was confusion. Tell me, why is it so hard to find a man who has his life together and all he need is someone to love? I can write a book on my dating disasters. Instead, I rather tell you what I'm looking for. A strong, intelligent, hardworking responsible
man who can match my personality. He loves to travel, loves to dine and loves to please. As I love to travel, love to dine out and I love to please. I also love to cook as well. So we can break even on the dining out and staying in. MUST keep himself in shape and MUST have friends. I think it's very important for couples to sustain a social life outside of the relationship. I been down that road before and through my experience, I believe that people without friends tend to be a little clingy and controlling.
One of dating sites biggest flaws are ppl tend to get so caught up on someone's looks that they don't take heed to their profile. I think respecting someone's interests is very important. I can be brutally honest at times and I like what I like. So don't waste our time if you are not what I'm looking for. For instance, don't contact me if you are a chain smoker who still live in your mom's basement when I specifically said, "have your life together and don't smoke." Granted no one is perfect. Show me someone who's perfect and I will runaway from him. But everyone have their limit as to what should be tolerated.
I'm hardworking yet I know when to play. I don't bite my tongue and I never sugarcoat. My friends and family say I'm humorous but I will let you be the judge of that. I can be a social butterfly but at times I like some lone time. When I say I'm looking for a strong male, I mean it. You must be an alpha male who's confident. I supervise 22 arrogant males. In order for me to do that, I have to be assertive. Because of this, I will never be judged as passive aggresive. Additionally, I work long hours at night and my partner is a male. Can you handle that? An alpha, confident male can. Don't get me wrong, When the right one comes along and proves to me thru his intellect, heart and confidence that I can depend on him and become somewhat passive aggressive, I will.
So... now that you've read my profile and meet all of the qualifications that I set forth, lets set up this interview lol. Isn't that's what a first date is anyway?