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41 year old man
Havertown, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
women 30-43
Within:
30 Miles of Havertown, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Hi!

Thanks for stopping by. My friends joke that I'm missing the filter between my brain and mouth. It's not that I'm mean or inappropriate -- they are, after all, my friends -- I'm nice, responsible and well-behaved mostly. I just like things spicy and honest. That being said, I don't suggest a scathing eulogy at a funeral.

I like the bizarre nuances, the imperfections, the elements that make a person unique. If your words surprise me into stifling a laugh, that's a good sign. If it's impossible for me to contain it, that's even better.

Failed attempts at humor usually make me laugh harder than well-executed attempts. (Of course, this draws attention to the failure ... which is also funny.)

I mostly enjoy whatever I'm doing. In social settings (bars, living rooms, grocery stores), my friends and I always laugh with and at each other. Alone, I rarely am bored: I easily lose myself in activities (movies, playing guitar, reading).

Most of the time an optimist, I try to emphasize or focus on the better aspects of all situations. Why excessively worry about something? Either fix it when you can, or accept it. I guess that generally makes me a happy person ... although I can get irritated if somebody incessantly taps their fingernails on a neighboring table at a restaurant.

I love my nieces. I moved from Boston to Philadelphia to be closer to them. My growing collection of their pictures and artwork has transformed my office into "A Beautiful Mind" (my favorite is Sophie's "Faces of Death" poster). I have also missed many Halloween parties over the past decade to attend the one's birthday parties ... but that's okay, I'll crash her Halloween parties in another 10-15 years. "Crap, Olivia, your damn uncle is here again."

I love music: Afghan Whigs, Alice in Chains, The Beatles, Blond Redhead, D.Bowie, Built to Spill, Catherine Wheel, Dinosaur Jr, FF, GVSB, GBV, PJ Harvey, Jack Drag, Kent, Led Zeppelin, Local H, Longpigs, Lush, Michael, Modest Mouse, Mudhoney, MBV, Nada Surf, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, The Pixies, Pulp, Radiohead, Screaming Trees, Sleater-Kinney, Elliott Smith, Soundgarden, Spoon, STP, Suede, SDRE, Tool, UO, Verbena, etc.

I'm looking for an intelligent, witty, playful woman whose conversations engage my brain and my funny bone at the right times. After this past Christmas, I should add that I'm also seeking a human focus for my mother's holiday exuberance, so she'll stop buying presents for my cat and stop wrapping my gifts with cat accessories.

Do you giggle? Uncontrollably sometimes? Do you sometimes laugh at inappropriate things?

Do you enjoy some TV, movies, music? Do you like to watch sports? Can you tolerate some sports? Do you enjoy going out to restaurants/bars? Do you occasionally like to try something different for entertainment?

If you wear makeup, do you keep it light and simple (except for Halloween)? Is having fun more important to you than looking like you're having fun?

Will you do anything for your friends and family? Do you tell the truth? Even when a lie is easier? Do you give people the benefit of the doubt (assume positive, prove negative)?

Are you emotionally available to date and eventually to commit? Do you engage relationships to merge happiness, not to fill voids? Do you take Match seriously (i.e. your profile ends with something other than "submitted from mobile")?

Are you good w/ laundry? Doesn't matter, b/c I'm awesome w/ laundry. Are you good w/ yard work? Please say yes. Oh, well, doesn't matter.

Last one: will you laugh, if I'm wearing glasses and I take them off to blow my nose? I hope so.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

Last October, I adopted a neighborhood stray, who happily turned into an indoor cat for the winter. Not so happy in the summer, when he meowed in a tortured fashion to go "stray" again. And I thought that my nieces could whine.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I'm a fan of social activities where people laugh, relax, let loose, and most importantly have fun. On my own, I enjoy aimless city wanderings, movies, reading and music, even writing/recording my own at home (for my fun and others' mockery).

Favorite hot spots:

I prefer pub- and bar-type settings to dance clubs (favoring conversation over bass-induced heart arrhythmias), but I have fun everywhere. Pretty sure that I don't frequent any frat-sanctioned "hot" spots, but I'd live in Eulogy's fridge if allowed.

Favorite things:

Belgian sour ales, craft beer, Varga's Kobe burger, Santucci's pizza, chocolate. For TV: bizarre story lines (Lost), surreality (Dexter, True Blood, Walking Dead, Falling Skies), giggle fests (Psych) ... just so it's non-formulaic and creative.

Last read:

I like what is classified as good literature (big fan of Vonnegut), but I more often read lighter fare (e.g. Dean Koontz) and magazines (e.g. Rolling Stone). Last item: "The City and The City". Now: "Looking for Jake".

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Moderately
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I'm a team lead and principal software developer for a trading firm. I deal w/ aspects of management (meetings, reports, hiring/firing, etc) and technology (designs, code, etc).

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Half German and the other half is a mixture of Scottish, English and Irish. Lederhosen, kilts, pubs & leprechauns.

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have two engineering degrees: a B.S. from Penn State (go Lions!) in Engineering Science and Mechanics and an M.S. from University of Florida in Electrical Engineering. Left me w/ great textbooks to aid in the falling-asleep process.

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