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36 year old man
Oakland, California, United States

Seeking:
women 27-36
Within:
50 Miles of Oakland, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

My photos do a great job expressing my personality, work hard but a child at heart who doesn't care if I dance bad in public. I am a Bay Area native. I was born in SF, grew up in a college town not too far from Tahoe and my favorite family memories were going to Tahoe to go snowboarding with my parents, two sisters and cool but spoiled dog. I like supporting up-and-coming bands at smaller venues, hiking around Mendocino, watching pro sports, or staying in to watch movies or working at a family winery during the weekends. I don't spend lots of time dwelling on little things and think life is full of opportunities, humor and beauty. Planning and organizing does not come naturally to me but I am really creative and spontaneous and can think of 365 different things to do each year which is why things work out and are fun. Anyway, I'm close to one sister in particular and like the idea of meeting someone that also has siblings to do stuff together.

I am easy-going so I hold a grudge for about as long as I can hold my breath. Personally I don't measure myself worth by my education, job, house, or money but rather my actions, the decisions I make, how meaningful my time is being spent and whom I chose to spend time with. I can be hard on myself and push myself oppose to people around me and like learning from educated people. I have a relaxed personality with spurts of enthusiastic energy.

I grew up a great deal working abroad for work for most of my 20's after college on my own in very formative years. I was traveling nearly continuously for five years working for a Telecom Company marketing R&D solutions to divisions around Europe and Asia mainly while living in Sweden. It was a very strange existence because I went from a rather sheltered/normal upbringing to campus life, then was on my own working in Europe with very little oversight, learning by trial and error both professionally and personally as I was in a committed relationship in Stockholm.

I have always put my own abilities to the test and have always operated on the edge of being in over my head. Therefore, I tend to bond and get inspired by women who also challenge themselves. I was raised in a family with very accomplished, smart and faithful women so I have a healthy interpretation of relations with women. My future girlfriend is going to make me truly happy will be passionate, smart and looking to have as much fun and adventurous as possible with me.

I have had few but long and healthy relationships but one bad one and learned from all of them. I'm not hardwired like many guys, there is nobody who can get me into a relationship based on looks alone, in fact, often it can backfire just as you women feel about guys who think they are too hot...it's not attractive. On the other hand, sexiness is so fun and dynamic; it's weird now that I think about it because both shyness and confidence can be sexy, it's my job to make sure my girlfriend realizes how sexy she is to me and that is also a really fun part of being in a relationship. Simply having confidence and encouragement can be sexy and I know I have learned these things being in long healthy relationships. Anyway, I am my girlfriend's best friend first, biggest supporter, generous, supportive, loving and will help whenever possible to help her realize her dreams. Having sisters I have a nature protective instinct, for example I was taught to pee sitting down. I want to find someone who is humble; not into judging others, high-maintenance, looking for a guy for financial reasons , or overly into projecting a self-image unless its part of your job or just having fun. I find women of color to be attractive as well as people of my own ethnicity but also a perk if you can speak Swedish or German. I like being in a long term relationship because you get to celebrate twice as many triumphs through life as well as having support through the low points.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Coffee and conversation, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I don't have any pets but grew up with dogs and would like one soon. I never grew up with Cats or tiny dogs. Cats seem to sense indifference and are all trying to win me over by cuddling on my lap. If I enter a house with a cat, they will find me.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Libra
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

cooking, volunteering, watching live music, snowboarding, hiking, going to the movies and attending associations I am involved with such as Rotary.

Favorite hot spots:

Baobop if I cleaverly manipulated to dance. Going Out: Natural History Science Museum (Nightlife) on Thursdays. Restaurant: Delfina. Local Getaway:Tahoe. International: I look forward to visiting my best friends in London and Stockholm annually.

Favorite things:

I like all kinds of music and listen to Spotify which I think is the best app ever!

Last read:

I read The Economist Magazine each week. I read the book motive Lincoln was based on. You may find me flipping through a People or Cosmo, seems like science fiction...

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'1" (154cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

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Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian

My Grandfather (Bestefar) is from Norway and have friends and family and Scandinavia

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, German, Swedish
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a BS in Business Finance, moved to Germany after graduating, did post-grad work and studied German, then in Basel, Switzerland and Stockholm for an International Business Program. College Educated is a must.

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