I have a pretty solid foundation and so should you. I have my own place, a car I have fun with, and a car I go places in. I love animals and have a dog and cat, so you shouldn't have allergies. I have a solid job with great benefits, I'd like you to at least work. I like to spend time together but not smother. I'd like to have a real shot at something and not be one of five guys you're constantly talking to. I think that's the problem these days. To often guys just want sex, so they dilute these sites up with such garbage that when a decent guy like myself writes a girl, my message is never read. Enough of the rant, I want the real deal, you should too.